another girl gone

bandit

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a few weeks ago, i got the number of this girl who goes 2 my church. she had a crush on me so i managed 2 get her number from a friend because i was shy 2 approch her. it stared going well and i was more comfortable with texting than talking on the phone. she called me twice, every time she called, i began to sweat and feeling uncomfortable, and had nothing to say. she still liked me. yesterday after talking 2 her on the phone, shynes and sa made me text her back saying that it was over yet i still loved her, she was gona be my first girl friend but shyness and sa have runiend it for me.

now am finding ways 2 get rid of my sa, you cant maintain a relationship while suffering from sa.
 

Butterflies

Well-known member
Glad to hear your're doing something to work through your SA.

If she is worth it ... I mean really worth the pain -

You could try expressing to her that you need her to be patient. You could tell her that you have trouble trusting people and opening up and get really nervous. She will appreciate your honesty. If you have the courage - to back to her and tell her.
 

Watermark

Member
bandit said:
a few weeks ago, i got the number of this girl who goes 2 my church. she had a crush on me so i managed 2 get her number from a friend because i was shy 2 approch her. it stared going well and i was more comfortable with texting than talking on the phone. she called me twice, every time she called, i began to sweat and feeling uncomfortable, and had nothing to say. she still liked me. yesterday after talking 2 her on the phone, shynes and sa made me text her back saying that it was over yet i still loved her, she was gona be my first girl friend but shyness and sa have runiend it for me.

now am finding ways 2 get rid of my sa, you cant maintain a relationship while suffering from sa.

Hey, are you sure she really thought of it that way? LOL

I'm not saying that she didn't like you, but your message seems it would've really come outta left field. And "love" is a bit strong an adjective, don't you think?

Don't take things so seriously man. FACE YO FEARS! Good luck anyway.
 

jus

Well-known member
going out with her would of been a good way to try start :)

bandit said:
a few weeks ago, i got the number of this girl who goes 2
now am finding ways 2 get rid of my sa, you cant maintain a relationship while suffering from sa.
 
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