Hi all,
Hoping for a little advice on something I've been struggling with for a while now. I really have trouble with my anxiety in the workplace. To the point where I had to leave my old job becuase I was so dreading going to work each day and I'd come home extremely exhausted from having to deal with anxiety from interacting with colleagues all day. One area I really struggle with is speaking with managers and more senior people. I feel as though my anxiety is obvious to them, and that it must make me look really incompetent. When I speak to them, my voice get shaky, I have trouble with eye contact and I really don't communicate or articulate my words very clearly. I feel like they must be thinking "this guy is obviously not confident in himself, how can we have confidence in him and rely on him professionally?".
I'm really trying to be proactive and challenge these thoughts using cbt, but what would really help if I could get some other perspectives on my thoughts. Do you think its reasonable that a manager would think less of me professionally, if they do pick up on my anxiety?
Hoping for a little advice on something I've been struggling with for a while now. I really have trouble with my anxiety in the workplace. To the point where I had to leave my old job becuase I was so dreading going to work each day and I'd come home extremely exhausted from having to deal with anxiety from interacting with colleagues all day. One area I really struggle with is speaking with managers and more senior people. I feel as though my anxiety is obvious to them, and that it must make me look really incompetent. When I speak to them, my voice get shaky, I have trouble with eye contact and I really don't communicate or articulate my words very clearly. I feel like they must be thinking "this guy is obviously not confident in himself, how can we have confidence in him and rely on him professionally?".
I'm really trying to be proactive and challenge these thoughts using cbt, but what would really help if I could get some other perspectives on my thoughts. Do you think its reasonable that a manager would think less of me professionally, if they do pick up on my anxiety?