Bronson99
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If one is a pathetic loser for a long time--I'll define it by not being college educated (with perhaps no ability to become so), ADDish, socially deficient, and either in crappy jobs or has no job--is it ever possible to lose the stigma? Is it ever possible for such an individual to find a woman interested beyond simple platonic interaction?
I was looking around Reddit the other day, and found a post from some guy (not myself) who was in that situation.. had many problems through no fault of his own, which led to his inability to make and accomplish goals.. and some of the responses were absolutely cruel. A woman on there replied "he'd be a permanent virgin.. no woman would want to have sex with him, knowing the biological underpinnings.. high likelihood of transferring the genetic deficiency.. and if he doesn't have a good job, he wouldn't be able to pay in case a child is accidentally conceived." That made me feel horrible... I guess, Reddit is not the place to go if anyone wants empathy. I've seen other responses to shy/anxious men there, who have romantic problems, one of which went "one option is to kill yourself, because no one cares about your Beta a$$ " WTF?
1. Is this woman's response indeed the way women think about the prospects of broken and/or disabled men? If so, then of course, it does not leave a warm and fuzzy feeling in my heart. That one response to some poor guy who wanted temporary inspiration caused me to "not feel so good", and that's an understatement.
2. Can a seriously broken, faulty, loser-ish guy make *slight improvements* in their life which might inspire some interest from the opposite sex.. or is this a "forever" label that instills permanent virginity, permanent lack of romantic relationships.. etc?
In any case, I don't think I'll be looking at Reddit anymore.. I've seen cruelty in there that doesn't compare to anything else I've seen on the Internet recently.
I was looking around Reddit the other day, and found a post from some guy (not myself) who was in that situation.. had many problems through no fault of his own, which led to his inability to make and accomplish goals.. and some of the responses were absolutely cruel. A woman on there replied "he'd be a permanent virgin.. no woman would want to have sex with him, knowing the biological underpinnings.. high likelihood of transferring the genetic deficiency.. and if he doesn't have a good job, he wouldn't be able to pay in case a child is accidentally conceived." That made me feel horrible... I guess, Reddit is not the place to go if anyone wants empathy. I've seen other responses to shy/anxious men there, who have romantic problems, one of which went "one option is to kill yourself, because no one cares about your Beta a$$ " WTF?
1. Is this woman's response indeed the way women think about the prospects of broken and/or disabled men? If so, then of course, it does not leave a warm and fuzzy feeling in my heart. That one response to some poor guy who wanted temporary inspiration caused me to "not feel so good", and that's an understatement.
2. Can a seriously broken, faulty, loser-ish guy make *slight improvements* in their life which might inspire some interest from the opposite sex.. or is this a "forever" label that instills permanent virginity, permanent lack of romantic relationships.. etc?
In any case, I don't think I'll be looking at Reddit anymore.. I've seen cruelty in there that doesn't compare to anything else I've seen on the Internet recently.