I find it very very hard to say no. I know that people just use me, but my thought process tells me that if I do what they want, then they will be my friend. I have lost money due to lending it to people who never paid me back, I have ended up in bed with guys who I didn't want to be in that situation with, I have gone out after being woken up at all hours to pick someone up from wherever, and I know that technically, if I say no to something and that person turns their back on me then they ere never really a friend, but I don't like to make anyone annoyed at me, I crave acceptance, and I learnt in my teen years that people like me more when I'm a yes person. It's horrible, I know, and I'm trying to fix it, but even then saying no becomes a confrontational thing and I try to avoid that as much as possible.