*******s bring out the best in me. - Page 3

Sure_whynot · 05-01-2009, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Satine

Salt the earth, as it were?

Yeah, I never heard that phrase before this thread.

But Im not going to lie, if they deserve the hate, I might as well have some fun.

I think I've figutred out something important about myself though. I have always enjoyed fighting, like physically, with friends and my bros. I enjoy the sport, watching UFC, practicing/talking about MMA, etc. I think I've realized that enjoying fighting, and being an *******, aren't necessarily the same. The line can be easily blurred, but it is there.

NormanBates · 05-11-2009, 07:54 AM

Oh no, you're like my sister. She has so much fire in her blood it makes my head spin. It's only a bad thing when I'm the one who is dealing with her. I appreciate when she hides that side of herself for peace, but I know what the real her is like which is why I keep her at arm's length.
And then this distance is why she attacks me. It's a never-ending cycle.
Got any advice?
Should I put on a thick padded suit and spend more time around her?

Cynic · 06-14-2009, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Sure_whynot

When someone says/does something stupid and it pisses me off, or I strongly disagree with it, then I become ridiculously motivated to "knock them down a peg". Even if I only witness it happen, and have no prior involvement in any way.

My question is... Is this motivation and "thirst" to even-up the odds a bad thing?

Certainly no worse and definetely better than ganging up with the bully.

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Is this a self destructive personality trait to act upon?

I guess it depends how far out of your depth you are willing to go, like the calibar of bully you're likely to be dealing with.

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Am I as bad as the "bully"?

No, because you're not attacking innocents like a lot of bullies do.

07-19-2009, 06:01 PM

I've been into tons of fights and scraps (although in the last 5-6 years none!). Honestly most of the time, *******s will do what's in their nature to do, and that is be and do the ******* thing. You either understand that they're retarded or your going to get a rap for being aggressive. However I feel that if you can teach someone a lessons with a placed punch, and it's deserved, well hey, sometimes you can only get through to these people by standing up to them. Then again I've been the ******* and gotten hit, I NEVER acted like that again, it's a humbling and painful experience.