Awkward things your friends/coworkers does to you

Dating Traning Expericenes

So yesterday a coworker put me into a bad position, we always have lunch on the same restaurant every day, and a lot of cute girls works there,, but I would never ask them out or yet talk to them, but yesterday I was talking to him and this girl passes by the table and he comments with me "isn't she nice looking" I said yes she is... then she passes again, he stops her and tell her I think she is pretty,, at that point i'm really red and anxious and all these feelings of awkward then i tell her yes you are very pretty indeed,, then she says thank and walks away.. then she passes again and asks her phone number for me, i'm like come on man really?! wasn't the other bit enough already?!?! then he was like.. dude u gotta ask her out right now.. i'm like.. uhmm nop...

now the problem is today.. i'm going to the same restaurant. let see what is gonna happen.. very anxious just thinking about it :thinking:

Make the best of it. If that girl is there, and she makes eye contact, just give her a friendly smile. If she doesn't make eye contact and smile at you leave her be.

Is your co worker in a relationship but when single is somewhat of a womanizer? I had a friend who had a wife but would still flirt with women and act like it was for the benefit of others. "No I'm not trying to get with that woman. I'm just helping my single friend get a girlfriend".

This shouldn't be that difficult unless you're too shy to say anything to her. Just apologize for your friend's behavior and tell here he thinks things like that are funny. It could be a good icebreaker for you if you really are interested in her.

Updates: so the day that that happened she gave me the number and I copied to my phone and sent her a message on whatsapp then i saw it was read but no reply then i sent another message asking if was her and some guy replies saying i got the wrong number and I though... great she even gave wrong number...

So next day we go there again and 1st i'm not even looking at her.. maybe she looked at me few times then we both looked and smiled.. and i told my coworker what happend then she passed again and he said "hey Otavio how are you doing" Otavio was the name of the wrong number,, and she just smiled like wtf are they on about.. then we left and i though finally this is over...

so yesterday we went there again and while i'm getting my food, they are on the table again and when i get back those little **** lol asked her number again! well i check the number and was 1 number misspelled lol and i didn't know what to say and I told her i'd send her a msg...

Now this morning.. I go check to see if she replied my msg and I go on her name and the phone freaking calls her and i'm on a panic mode.. crap crap phone and I kind of freak out and the screen locks and i'm trying to unlock and all i hear is Hello...Hello and I finally get my phone to turn off...

Then I wait about 30mins and send her a msg that my phone called her by mistake and so on.. now she haven't replied me...

OMG this thing is getting more awkward as the day passes..

Update...
After a month hanging out with this girl, finally yesterday after some anxiety (somewhat natural pill) I had the guts to kiss her,, and actually she is the one that kissed me, it was interesting, she wanted all this time but was a bit shy too.. just needed that little push by me saying "I want to kiss you".

I'm happy that after nearly 3 years I'm finally getting some action and the more I know about this girl, the more I realize that is the type of girl I always had dreamed about, it's weird... last night I finally felt a little bit like a normal person, and I tell you what.. that feels good!

It sounds like things are going well with her, and its nice that you were able to find someone who makes you feel comfortable :thumbup:.

Good going! So happy to hear success stories. I hope it continues in a positive direction!

FINAL UPDATE: So this is probably the last update on this post..
Last sunday was probably the best time I've had with a girl for the past 4 years, well the only time. we connected so much, I couldn't believe my eyes.. but then this past week, was terrible, something was off on her side.. it was the usual, wasn't talking much or replying 95% of my texts, didn't want to hang out this weekend.. then this morning I got the message "we need to talk". yep from that text we all know what it means.

Well I'm quite sad about it because I still don't get how can somebody be all close one day then the over all far away.. anyways. does it suck? yes it sucks a lot that i'm single again and lost a person that had so much in common with, but this time i'm seeing all this in another perspective. why? because it's the 1st time in a very very long time that I ignored all my fears, anxiety, worries etc and went for it.. I see this dating thing as a training process. Now I gotta close this chapter and move to the next one I guess.