Bad and awkward holiday. Is it just me?

Okay long story short. I'm on holiday with a family friend (my grandma is best friends with her grandma. So I'm on holiday with the granddaughter Kay and her boyfriend Ben)

Anyway I'm on holiday with her and her bf is after me. Its only the three of us, the Kay the boyfriend Ben. Ben is already after me anyway.
On holiday he has already tried to kiss my neck, touching my legs and boobs well all over. I told him to "**** off" and push him away. Yes I do want to punch him, but I'm only being nice around Kay.

One night when Kay was asleep me and Ben stayed up. That night he really did want to have sex with me because the way he was acting. He was touching me more and the way he was acting. I keep telling him to **** off. In the end he went back to bed and had sex with Kay.
When she came out of the bedroom i was up because them two had sex. I told her "Watch out for him"
she told me "he already told me he was going to tease you. Yes he would cheat on me but I love him"
I was shocked, I couldn't say anything.

The next day he was trying to kiss my neck and more, so he just sent me a text saying "Just out of interest. So if I was single you would sleep with me cos I am your type" I told him no.
He calmed down after that.

After the holiday I went to my friends grandmas house. She told her grandma that he's like that with everyone. When I told her "watch out for him" Right in my face front of the grandma she started laughing her head off saying "oh yeahh he's like that with everyone"

But he did not mention anything about the kissing on the neck, feeling my legs or trying to cuddle up to me. Absolutely nothing. Also Kay didn't mention what she said to me too. She's always a different person around her grandma.

I don't know. Maybe she expects it, but the way he was around me. Hmmmm I don't know.

PrincessKitty said:

Maybe she expects it, but the way he was around me. Hmmmm I don't know.

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Tell her this and exactly this. Maybe she expects it but let her know you are very uncomfortable around him. Maybe she has no boundaries but set yours. Make it clear he is not welcome around you.

dottie said:

Tell her this and exactly this. Maybe she expects it but let her know you are very uncomfortable around him. Maybe she has no boundaries but set yours. Make it clear he is not welcome around you.

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To be honest I am afraid of what she might say when I tell her, I also know her family very well because I grew up with her.
So i don't want to cause any arguments.

If you continue to 'hang around' him and her when you know what he is like, and they have all told you what he is like - and they accept it - then you may inadvertently send him the message that you may actually be receptive to his advances.

This guy seem's like a real j e r k. I can't stand guys like this. He shows total disrespect for his partner.

In my eyes the only way to deal with this is to stay well away from 'Ben', even when Kay is there.
If you love and respect Kay as a friend, the only thing to do is stay away until she grows tired of him being a sl*t - and she eventually will.

PugofCrydee said:

If you continue to 'hang around' him and her when you know what he is like, and they have all told you what he is like - and they accept it - then you may inadvertently send him the message that you may actually be receptive to his advances.

This guy seem's like a real j e r k. I can't stand guys like this. He shows total disrespect for his partner.

In my eyes the only way to deal with this is to stay well away from 'Ben', even when Kay is there.
If you love and respect Kay as a friend, the only thing to do is stay away until she grows tired of him being a sl*t - and she eventually will.

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Oh thank god! I know he was being a **** but Kay treated it like I was the bad guy. The grandma had no idea what he's like.
This was the second time that i saw him and he's getting worse and worse every time we talk.

I really don't want to cause an argument. I hardly see Kay or Ben. They have been going out for a year. And Kay is way to naive to figure out what he's like.
He flirted with me right in front her.. and many times I told him to **** off.

It got so bad that I wanted to go home. That was one of the worst holidays I've ever been on. I never want to do that again.

Thanks for the advice