milo2020
Active member
I have been asked to help on a farm on Sunday, I have been there last year, the farmer is a friend of my dad, and I was nervous before too, I am again too, I can't help it, I always get that feeling I am going to do something wrong, or I am going to do a mistake, or say something stupid.
I am bad at having to talk to people, and the people who will also be coming there are former high school class mates, that makes me a bit more nervous too.
One of them is a two faced person who I was friends with in college, and every time someone does something wrong he compliments them behind their back as "a mong" or stupid, because of the silly things they do that are simple and easy and he did that to me too once before, so I'm afraid that if I do something silly he might start backbiting me to he's mates later.
One more thing I hate, is the conversation that starts with "what you been up to these days?" "do you go out a lot these days"? which sometimes pops up from people who haven't seen me for a long time.. I feel ashamed to tell them I been working at home all year and nothing really important has happened in my life. Make things up?
I know I sound pathetic, but I can't help these feelings, they just creep up on me. I'm afraid that if I say no, I don't want to help, then my dad will be saying that it was an insult that I said no after he has been helping us with things, and he's going to pay me.
I rarely work for people, I work on my own or with my dad, so it's been a year since I have worked with others and ...I just feel anxious thinking about going there.
I am bad at having to talk to people, and the people who will also be coming there are former high school class mates, that makes me a bit more nervous too.
One of them is a two faced person who I was friends with in college, and every time someone does something wrong he compliments them behind their back as "a mong" or stupid, because of the silly things they do that are simple and easy and he did that to me too once before, so I'm afraid that if I do something silly he might start backbiting me to he's mates later.
One more thing I hate, is the conversation that starts with "what you been up to these days?" "do you go out a lot these days"? which sometimes pops up from people who haven't seen me for a long time.. I feel ashamed to tell them I been working at home all year and nothing really important has happened in my life. Make things up?
I know I sound pathetic, but I can't help these feelings, they just creep up on me. I'm afraid that if I say no, I don't want to help, then my dad will be saying that it was an insult that I said no after he has been helping us with things, and he's going to pay me.
I rarely work for people, I work on my own or with my dad, so it's been a year since I have worked with others and ...I just feel anxious thinking about going there.