Being disrespected at work

My God, people treat me so bad here that I can't believe I'm a human being.

I try my best to speak kindely and ask thinks politely, but people treat me so bad here...

I'm a social phobic trying to be normal, I've just heard very disgusting words from a small man with a ridiculous moustache and this man is supposedly my subordinate.

I was asking him about a problem we are having at the elevators and the guy said to me: "Why are you so dumb and ask those ****ing questions? Are you retarded? I've explained to you 3 times already and you can't understand?!

I replied: "Sorry, but you haven't answered what I've asked you."

How I should deal with a mother****er like that?
Honestly, I feel so much rage right know that I could beat him with a shovel, but I know when I see him I will be very kind because I'm a damned social phobic.

I like to think that when I'm cured I'm going to have some sweet revenge with those bastards, I'm doing my black list...

Anyone relate? Thoughts? Sarcasm? Indifference?

Give me all, because I want to be like a stone and don't feel pain anymore...

Complain to someone, like a higher boss. Or think about leaving. I had to put up with stuff like this sometimes too. At a job I almost ****ed up two coworkers and the supervisor cause they were disrespectful. I didnt care about losing the job, but I feared beign arrested so I never did it. I was really close to telling the operations manager but I was laid off before ti happened. Im just so glad Im out of that bullshit.

Shudda told him to pull his skirt down and ask him if another cup of Bitch wud make him easy

Its shit to work with such *****,and not being able to stand 4 yourself ,you could swallow that up and forget,or switch jobs,whats in this economic climate is nearly immposible.

i logged in here looking for a thread like this. damn people like that. How bloody rude... i'm even frustrated. But i can relate about acting spineless in those situations.... too many i've seethed over. And i completely understand how difficult it is to draw the courage to stand up to behaviour that is so openly rude like that.. i wish i had something helpful i could say. =(.

Today i went to work.. realised someone had placed me in charge of a side of the ward when i wasn't meant to be because i remember that the other nurse had been put in charge. So i approached the manager.. she said that i'd need to ASK the other nurse if she could be in charge.. which i did then she became moody. Accepted very hesitantly. Then both of these more experienced nurses and the manager gave me a hard time for the first few hours just because i'd inconvenienced that nurse. like... making me wait to check out drugs.. the nurse i was working with basically gave me a rushed handover i'd no chance of remembering.. attempting to embarrass me infront of the others.. just being unhelpful and rude. Work is so much harder when you can't depend on the staff to support you.

Exactly, I hate when they act like your enemy. Its those people who try and outdo others and compete while working the same job. I guess in hopes of getting favors.

I've dealt with this. Some people take advantage of our kind natures. Its hard but never let them see you get upset because thats what they want.

It must be so hard for the other guy. He sounds like a cartoon character. And to make it worse, he is the subordinate of a good-looking young thing like you. Take all the insults as a compliment, they obviously come from a place of extreme bitterness.