Blushing is sexy-- stop worrying about this

stevebellecosi · 06-13-2006, 04:21 PM

I've read some of these posts about how embarrassed you blushers get during important situations-- at work, social sit.s, speeches etc.

But the female among you should keep in mind that it's also really hot. Yes, we guys will tease you about but that doesn't mean we don't want you even more for how cute you are.

If you are a young woman 15-30, do not get surgery or try to cover it up. There are enough stonefaced girls out there already and though the "ice queen" look gets models on magazine covers (and I don't know why) we guys are just looking for girls who can display actual feelings.

I'm adding a poll for ONLY GUYS WHO ARE NOT BLUSHERS.

crazyfairyx · 06-13-2006, 04:31 PM

I don't think telling girls who blush that they shouldn't worry about it is really going to help matters to be honest, but I'm sure you're just trying to help.

shipost · 06-13-2006, 04:51 PM

what if your a blushing guy :(

crazyfairyx · 06-13-2006, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by shipost

what if your a blushing guy :(

((Shipost)) I don't think there's anything wrong with guys or girls who blush, but it's how you perceive yourself that counts, it's like telling someone with bdd that they're not unattractive and to stop worrying about it, it's not gonna make their problem vanish. xx

Meow · 06-13-2006, 05:01 PM

Well i'm sure it'a cute when you blush infront of a guy you like and he goes "awww" but blushing in a supermarket line isn't exactly hot or sexy. We're not talking about just blushing when you're flirting or something.

Linds · 06-13-2006, 10:12 PM

I'm with meow its cute when someone's talking to their crush and blush like that. But what we're mostly talking about is the completely red face (and in my unfortunate case, flushing too) that we've had for a long time and got teased about all throughout our lives so we don't see as this cute little thing we see a huge embarassing problem.

maggie · 06-13-2006, 11:04 PM

..what i don't like about it is..if i'm blushing simply cause i'm having a bad time with my anxiety....and some guy i'm serving coffee to thinks it's some kind of cute....sign...or whatever.... that i'm flattered that he's flirting with me...or that i think he's hot or something....that's really annoying :evil:

corsa · 06-14-2006, 09:35 AM

I don't think my bosses find my blushing cute when we are in a business meeting. Cuteness has nothing to do with professionalism and competence. Trust me, stevebellecosi, if you were sitting across the table from me when my neck and face is spotchy red, you wouldn't find anything attractive about it, rather you would be asking what the hell is her problem? It doesn't look good at all. :(

black_mamba · 06-14-2006, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by stevebellecosi

I've read some of these posts about how embarrassed you blushers get during important situations-- at work, social sit.s, speeches etc.

I think you've misunderstood the problem. I also think you've probably never met a person who blushes uncontrollably.

mle · 06-18-2006, 08:15 AM

ok lets not b too mean
he just made a mistake
thanks for saying its sexy but this isnt rele blushing as you prob know it
this is full on redness and then sometimes braking out into a huge sweat
is it rele sexy when you're talking to your parents in your home or completely normal situations and you go bright red?
it make the blusher embarassed which only makes things worse and it makes everyone else rele embarassed. i see people trying to look away when they talk to me and i go bright red