astrid
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my husband of 27years has bipolar disorder
he was physically and emotionally abused by his father
this old man still keeps manipulating and pressuring him although in my nievity i have trie to explain the damage he does.
the old man now tries to poison my relationship with my husband, painting me as a contolling woman.
every time my husband gets to feeling a little better this OBast rings and heaps another load of guilt or threats re inheritnce etc on him.
when it gets to much it trips a mania and my husband takes off overseas leaving me to deal with the kids finances on my own i often dont know where he is or if he.ll come home
then the OBast rings me demanding that his son calls him
I'm pretty tough but it.s hard enough coping with a BP loved one without this
husband has tried to confront him but this often sets off a flight response
any ideas, i need help
astrid
he was physically and emotionally abused by his father
this old man still keeps manipulating and pressuring him although in my nievity i have trie to explain the damage he does.
the old man now tries to poison my relationship with my husband, painting me as a contolling woman.
every time my husband gets to feeling a little better this OBast rings and heaps another load of guilt or threats re inheritnce etc on him.
when it gets to much it trips a mania and my husband takes off overseas leaving me to deal with the kids finances on my own i often dont know where he is or if he.ll come home
then the OBast rings me demanding that his son calls him
I'm pretty tough but it.s hard enough coping with a BP loved one without this
husband has tried to confront him but this often sets off a flight response
any ideas, i need help
astrid