cant cope

Anonymous

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anyone ever feel so frustrated and that they cant cope with life anymore. im sitting here getting in a state bout going to work 2mo, iv worked there for 4 bloody years and am close to everyone! why am i so scare all the time. and here comes the oh so original line... no one understands me! my mum tells me to get a grip, how supportive!!!!

xx
 

Yossarian

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Since I tend to avoid life as best I can, coping with it isn't so bad anymore.

It is strange how all phobias except social phobia are cured through consistent exposure to its cause. Yet I'm still scared of going to the same supermarket for 5 years.

It really is crazy, no pun intended.
 

Anonymous

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Don't be too hard on your Mother, she is giving you any different advice that a lot of professionals give! They simply can't understand what it's like. My Mother simply ignores it all togther-- changes the subject and prentends that it doesn't exsist. Talk about frustration. But then, maybe I should cop her attitude, try pretending it just doesn't exist. Sometimes I can do that, but it's not always possible. :(
 

crashmodem

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I feel like that every day, everytime i go out.. i am tired of it.. i just want to die..

but i can't because i don't want my family to suffer...
 

Tirta

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Talk about die, why it is i like to die better than have to face people or being alone?
 

slahive

Member
There should be a *thinking of dying* board here.By what i have read,on many posts.Sick minds,lonely minds,empty minds....Gees.THE PITS?the lowest a sick mind,can get....Maybe we are all at it.But there's a bottom,there has to be.
 

LilMissTragic

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do ya know what I always think...what if i were to die...then suddenly theres a cure or a way to overcome the sp...wouldnt that be a bitch. Anyways, I'm not the suicidal type, I'm too stubborn to give up. So please, dont give up, once ya hit rock bottom theres only one way out and thats up :)
 

Mooncalf

Active member
Yep, as Tyler Durden says "it's only when we've lost everything that we're free to do anything".

Been there with the suicide, nearly died, didn't, and 3 years later ... now I like my life.
 
i often wondered if anyone has actually taken there own life because of s/a! i have thought about it a few times, but like u say..."im 2 stuburn" i care 2 much 4 my family & friends & i do strongly believe that life is great & im destined 4 better times!
plus... despite all these brain numbing issues, i still find life extremely enjoyable!

can i just say 2 anyone who is thinkin life isnt worth living....

U R NOT ALONE, but things can only get better, life is a precious thing & nomatter how many problems enter your complex mind, they can allways b fixed!

NO problem is unsolvable!

1.THE PAST IS HISTORY......

2.THE FUTURE IS A MYSTERY.....

3.TODAY IS A GIFT THATS WHY ITS CALLED THE PRESENT :D
 

Nadine333

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hann said:
anyone ever feel so frustrated and that they cant cope with life anymore. im sitting here getting in a state bout going to work 2mo, iv worked there for 4 bloody years and am close to everyone! why am i so scare all the time. and here comes the oh so original line... no one understands me! my mum tells me to get a grip, how supportive!!!!

xx

You should try and get some supportive help from somewhere if your mother cant provide it, its good that you come on line and talk to others about your problems, I say let it all out
 

blue

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dont you find though that sometimes you`ll go through rough patches were everything feels so dam hard then there are times when you have more confidence and things dont seem so bad?.........swings and roundabouts....... :?
 

Skyla

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ive just started a new job and i already feel like "damn i dont wanna go in." i hate the first few weeks (or months) when you dont know anything (which is normal), you really feel stupid for getting something wrong. everything seems so perfect and you feel pressure to keep that going. being there has made me realise dat i was more good at my old than i gave myself credit for. especially now im helping the newbies who work there.
and it is harder because it doesnt seem to get any easier. the saying is once you face your fear, it'll be alright (well not in those words, but you know what i mean, lol). but it doesnt seem to. you're just living your fears, it not getting any better each day.
 

Lost_Nomad

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yah i know how you feel. its the fear that we will get laughed at or put down that keeps us in this state of mind. going to the same place only gets you used to the surounding but the people are still so terrifying. the trueth is that sociaty stuctures its self with artifical boundrys between peoples, all these damn groups and classes. people have to look a particular way if they want to be liked. its not your fault and you can get over it, you just have to start seeing yourself as good or better then all those around you. hell people are killing themselves even without SA over this sort of thing.
It is strange how all phobias except social phobia are cured through consistent exposure to its cause. Yet I'm still scared of going to the same supermarket for 5 years.
yah it is strange but true. in a fear of hights the ground never comes at you for no apparant reason, people on the other hand do say and do evil thing just because they can. that really why its so hard for us to get over it.
 
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