Propulsion
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I have just been surfing forums and found that there are lots of people with similar problems to me. For the last 8 years or so I have found it very hard to maintain eye contact with people. I believe it was induced by MDMA , amphetamine and cannabis abuse which started at university a couple of years before. Another major factor is the fact that I have rarely had intimacy and have fallen in love many times but never had the love recipricated. I have an insecurity that I must be ugly or too weird to find a girlfriend although friends tell me I am good looking.
It has ruined my social life, I have never had a girlfriend and seem to crave attention and intimacy but find it very scary at the same time - Although I have no fear of large crowds ( I produce dance music and play in front of hundreds of people) I get anxious when having to look at someone in the eyes. Its as if I am scared of intimidating them - My face tenses up around my frown area and I in turn dont concentrate on the conversation. However the severity depends on how much sleep I have had an the amount of cannabis I have smoked the day/ night before.
I am quite intelligent, friendly and am very focussed but I spend lots of time on my own in my own world on my computer either producing music or surfing the net.
The only things that seems to reduce my symptoms are taking MDMA and the effect of falling in love (which I do too easily).
Have I got a form of OCD or social phobia??
It has ruined my social life, I have never had a girlfriend and seem to crave attention and intimacy but find it very scary at the same time - Although I have no fear of large crowds ( I produce dance music and play in front of hundreds of people) I get anxious when having to look at someone in the eyes. Its as if I am scared of intimidating them - My face tenses up around my frown area and I in turn dont concentrate on the conversation. However the severity depends on how much sleep I have had an the amount of cannabis I have smoked the day/ night before.
I am quite intelligent, friendly and am very focussed but I spend lots of time on my own in my own world on my computer either producing music or surfing the net.
The only things that seems to reduce my symptoms are taking MDMA and the effect of falling in love (which I do too easily).
Have I got a form of OCD or social phobia??