"You can't love others, if you can't love yourself?"
Do you think this old saying is true?
I know I don't love myself, but I am in a relationship (almost 2.5 years). I feel bad because I have turned so hateful and mean. I can't let things he has done go - however big or little they may be. I can't trust him anymore. Our relationship was good for about a year when I didn't really know him well, but now we fight often. I feel like he is just with me so he has a GF and isn't alone. I don't feel like I am someone he would choose to be with. He even says that we have nothing in common. If some other girl -who fits his mold- shows him attention, I'd be gone. I just feel like it's not fair anymore to be with him. All I do is yell at everything he does. I don't know, maybe it's because I don't love who I am and am being paranoid. But maybe not. Either way, should someone who doesn't like themself be in a relationship? Is it fair to the other person?