CHANGE !?! -- How do you FEEL about it ?!?

Zipper

Well-known member

• Oct 31, 2014

• #1

Change is a transformation or transition from one state, condition, or phase to another. How do you feel about change? Are you a changing person? Does it make you happy? Does in make you nervous?

 

kihira

1

• Oct 31, 2014

• #2

Going through some changes right now and feeling very sad, a great sense of loss

 

THeCARS1979

Well-known member

• Oct 31, 2014

• #3

it depends, if its made to work against you, I Hate it

 

Sacrament

Well-known member

• Oct 31, 2014

• #4

If change is too upsetting for you, then you'll never find tranquility. Everything is changing all the time. Either you let it take you for the ride and just float along, adjusting as you see fit, or you'll keep swimming against the current and going nowhere or becoming too overwhelmed for comfort.

 

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nicole1

Well-known member

• Nov 1, 2014

• #5

I do not accept it all that well. I would love for some constants in my life.

 

LazyHermitCrab

Well-known member

• Nov 1, 2014

• #6

If the change is good then good, if its bad then bad

 

R3K

Well-known member

• Nov 2, 2014

• #7

I change the oxygen in my lungs about every three seconds... otherwise i'd feint, so that's good :thumbup:

 

Argentum

Well-known member

• Nov 2, 2014

• #8

I'm not a fan of "reinventing the wheel", or change for the sake of change when what's there works just fine.

 

BlackPuma

1

• Nov 2, 2014

• #9

I don't like environmental/convention changes, but personally change all the time. Most notably in opinions and tolerance.

 

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SCP-087-1

Well-known member

• Nov 2, 2014

• #10

I hate change. I constantly change though. Or at least try to. And I try to change for the better. Like learn knew stuff, experience new things, that kind of stuff. But it means being highly critical of myself and that isn't very good for my mood.

 

Stig23

Member

• Nov 3, 2014

• #11

I can get extremely anxious over changes. Don't like them most of the time lol.

 

Ithior

Well-known member

• Nov 4, 2014

• #12

I'm ok with change as long as I have a decent amount of time to figure out what things are going to change and how I can adapt to them. Depending on what it is, it could take a few minutes or a few days. If someone invites me out, I need a day (I can't go out the day they invite me, I will not feel like doing it; but if I wait a day I'll be ok with it). If I'm expecting to eat at some place but then it is changed at the last minute to another place with different types of food, I need a few minutes to adapt. It's like my tongue and stomach are waiting for one type of food and have to readjust to eat a different type, otherwise I'll feel a bit sick and won't eat much.

 

MotherWolff

Banned

• Nov 5, 2014

• #13

Everyone changes. Whether they realize it or not.

 

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spider04

1

• Nov 5, 2014

• #14

Looking back one year ago, myself and my way of thinking has changed a lot but I haven't reached the change I want yet, it can only happen the day I have enough confidence in myself and am happy. I'm looking forward to myself exactly one year from now, I'll be changed and closer to happy.

 

MotherWolff

Banned

• Nov 5, 2014

• #15

spider04 said:

Looking back one year ago, myself and my way of thinking has changed a lot but I haven't reached the change I want yet, it can only happen the day I have enough confidence in myself and am happy. I'm looking forward to myself exactly one year from now, I'll be changed and closer to happy.

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So what is your definition of happiness?

 

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spider04

1

• Nov 5, 2014

• #16

MotherWolff said:

So what is your definition of happiness?

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What we all want, to be free of anxiety and things that cause us to worry everyday, and to live happy. I may never be exactly there but I believe that if I pursue the things I want in life I will be happy enough one day, and I am doing that now, so I'm getting there slowly.