Falcon
Well-known member
Well, I've been trying to feel better about myself lately, and become more self confident. As part of this, I am trying to look better (shallow I know but I think it may work). But I am sooo embarrassed to change something about my appearance, because I know it will mean other people will look at me. You know? The way I am now, I may have some idiosyncrasies, but at least people know them and so pay no attention to them. If I get my hair cut nicely, or change my clothes, people will pay attention to how I was before, and how I am now. Honestly it sounds so stupid to care about this but it's really causing me anxiety.
But then I'm a guy who didn't even get his eyes checked when I knew I was having trouble with them, for fear of having to get glasses. I finally got contacts this year and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. It has helped my confidence enormously.
Man I wish I had true self esteem and just didnt care. :?
But then I'm a guy who didn't even get his eyes checked when I knew I was having trouble with them, for fear of having to get glasses. I finally got contacts this year and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. It has helped my confidence enormously.
Man I wish I had true self esteem and just didnt care. :?