chatting online...guys r *******s

cola junky

cola junky

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so, i've been trying to start a conversation online in order to improve my conversation skills. i tried in all sorts of chat sites and i've come to the conclusion: us guys r idiots!!!!

i dont mind who i talk to: guys or girls, i just want to talk to another inteligent human.
almost all the guys i approached or approached me ended the conversation the second they discovered i'm another guy....
because of this it's also hard talking to girls because they get a million private chat requests from million other guys and when i sent them chat request they ignore me.

so here's where i stand: guys dont want to chat with me because i'm not a girl and girls ignore me because they r flooded with other chat requests....

what m i supposed to do??? it's so annoying!!!!

i also tried omegle....if only i had a dollar for every time i've been asked asl....well...i would have had alot of money

arrhhhh!!!!
 
Invisibleman

Invisibleman

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HAHA I was going to ask if you used omegle:D but yeah guys quite simply dont want to talk to other guys they only want one thing...haha. Ive never tried using chat site or whatever because I imagine this is how it would be.
 
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Steppen-Wolf

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To be honest I really prefer talking to girls than to men on the web... But not because I'm trying to get.... Something :rolleyes:.

Growing up I was surrounded by girls in my family and being a "sensitive" non alpha male type of guy I couldn't ever really get along with most other men, so when I started talking to people on the web it was always girls. I was always like the gay friend (without the gay part, lol) as I always try to be very respectful and I love to try and be nice and understanding, I never feel more comfortable than playing that role with girls for whom I care about.

But I feel it's an artificial social barrier I've built for myself, closing myself to half the people in the world, but I'm not really sure about what to talk about with men... Sports?, don't really like them too much, hot girls?, I find that to be a very stupid subject to talk about.
 
Luka

Luka

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I talk to anyone who talks to me! and i'm a girl.... your probably just talking to the wrong sort of people. you'll find friends soon :) it'll just take a bit of work
 
WeirdyMcGee

WeirdyMcGee

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haha
I don't do chatrooms-- not ever, and I think you understand why.

If you want to practice talking to people, I think that speaking verbally is the best way to do it. (maybe the only real way... unfortunately)
I'm alright talking here but when I try to say a single word verbally-- nothing comes out of my mouth. So you have to continuously be speaking to people, pets, plants, yourself... just use your words and eventually it'll get easier.
...supposedly.
XD


Maybe I'm a bit of a snob-- but if anyone asks me "asl", I'm not answering them. haha
They can ask me how old I am, what I'm like and where I come from in the form of a conversation if they'd like to know-- otherwise; no dice!
 
cola junky

cola junky

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WeirdyMcGee:
yeh....i understand why u dont do chat rooms...
but the problem with verbal chat is the quantity:
i dont get to meet alot of new ppl on a daily basis not mentioning having the nerve to talk to every single one of them . there r plenty of ppl online and whenever i feel a little bit stressed i can end the conversation with no hard feelings: it's perfect for someone who's taking it slow in baby steps....

luka:
i dont mean that girls ignore me because they r being rude. they ignore me because they r flooded with conversations and simply dont have the ability to master so many conversations at once.....
 
unleashed

unleashed

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lol that made me try omegle, conversation: Stranger: give me a topic to talk about
You: capitalism
Stranger: is great
You: lol
Stranger: what else
You: why is capitalism great?
Stranger: becaues I live im america
Stranger: in
You: lol
You: but america has a massive poverty problem
Your conversational partner has disconnected.

ahahhahhahahha its just like the real world!
 
MaliceInWickedland

MaliceInWickedland

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Ahh yes the wonders of chatting online...

....Yeah all I've gotten out of chatting with people on the net is heartbreak and frustration. I'm even more weary to meet people online now, specifically guys, after that whole ordeal from last week which most of you probably know about by now (if you don't then please don't ask.)
 
ridicule

ridicule

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Steppen-Wolf said:
To be honest I really prefer talking to girls than to men on the web... But not because I'm trying to get.... Something :rolleyes:.

Growing up I was surrounded by girls in my family and being a "sensitive" non alpha male type of guy I couldn't ever really get along with most other men, so when I started talking to people on the web it was always girls. I was always like the gay friend (without the gay part, lol) as I always try to be very respectful and I love to try and be nice and understanding, I never feel more comfortable than playing that role with girls for whom I care about.

But I feel it's an artificial social barrier I've built for myself, closing myself to half the people in the world, but I'm not really sure about what to talk about with men... Sports?, don't really like them too much, hot girls?, I find that to be a very stupid subject to talk about.
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Same exact thing with me.

Of course guys wouldn't want to have leisure conversation with other guys, makes all the sense in the world, but you're wrong about girls getting a million chat requests. They're people just like guys are, just say hi (among other things) and see if you have similar interests. I talk to a lot of girls online and it's not like there's a formula, they're not all the same, just..... talk to them like they're people and not mythical creatures in an old novel somewhere.
 
Tiercel

Tiercel

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ridicule said:
Same exact thing with me.

Of course guys wouldn't want to have leisure conversation with other guys, makes all the sense in the world, but you're wrong about girls getting a million chat requests. They're people just like guys are, just say hi (among other things) and see if you have similar interests. I talk to a lot of girls online and it's not like there's a formula, they're not all the same, just..... talk to them like they're people and not mythical creatures in an old novel somewhere.
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Right now I could really use an old novel with a mythical creature. I always seem to blow it with women. Books I can handle. At least as long as they're in something approaching the English language.
 
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