Chilling__Echo
Well-known member
I'm going to try and keep this as short and sweet as possible.
the guy i'm dating now i've known a while, even while i was with my last bf but nothing happened. there's always been alot alot ALOT of chemestry between us. so now we finally have the opportunity to date. but only date.
we live an hour and a half away from each other, he just started student teaching adn i'm consumed in school as well so we don't have a whole lot of time. he only wants to "date" b/c of the time. i want more. but he says he needs someone that can just come over whenever, who he can be close to. so i was fine with that. we'll work with what we have. but we've established that it's exclusive dating
also, we used to work together, and at work, all i heard "so there was this one girl...". litterally. or "so i was at the club...". he says he's never cheated. but if he's single, he'll do whatever.
i found a number in his coat, but he later mentioned the name on it (he didn't konw i'd found it) that he was going to play tennis with her.
he goes to a different town to visit relatives he didn't have the chance to grow up with every other weekend.
whenever we go over the number of condoms we have, i could swear there were more... or am i just paranoid?
at heart i know he's a good guy but i'm not used to dating someone who goes to clubs, parties, has been with so many girls, would someone just tell me that i'm just being overly paranoid and suspicious?!?!
ugh, ok, not so short, but anyway, if there are any cheaters out there, help. anyone who has been cheated on, help. am i missing something?? what should i look for??? should i just lay off his nuts???[/b]
the guy i'm dating now i've known a while, even while i was with my last bf but nothing happened. there's always been alot alot ALOT of chemestry between us. so now we finally have the opportunity to date. but only date.
we live an hour and a half away from each other, he just started student teaching adn i'm consumed in school as well so we don't have a whole lot of time. he only wants to "date" b/c of the time. i want more. but he says he needs someone that can just come over whenever, who he can be close to. so i was fine with that. we'll work with what we have. but we've established that it's exclusive dating
also, we used to work together, and at work, all i heard "so there was this one girl...". litterally. or "so i was at the club...". he says he's never cheated. but if he's single, he'll do whatever.
i found a number in his coat, but he later mentioned the name on it (he didn't konw i'd found it) that he was going to play tennis with her.
he goes to a different town to visit relatives he didn't have the chance to grow up with every other weekend.
whenever we go over the number of condoms we have, i could swear there were more... or am i just paranoid?
at heart i know he's a good guy but i'm not used to dating someone who goes to clubs, parties, has been with so many girls, would someone just tell me that i'm just being overly paranoid and suspicious?!?!
ugh, ok, not so short, but anyway, if there are any cheaters out there, help. anyone who has been cheated on, help. am i missing something?? what should i look for??? should i just lay off his nuts???[/b]