All holidays typically make me feel bad. I think they are stupid traditions. It's weird too cause when I was little my parents always really made holidays awesome for me, some of the happiest memories I can think of were holidays when I was young.
I live with my dad still and my extended family on his side is rather large and they usually all get together at holidays and such and I have made a decision to really try and go to the Christmas gathering thing this Sunday. I don't
want to go, but I guess it might be good for my SA (and I've always had this idea hiding in the back of my mind that I'm a bit of a masochist...).
So I have told my Dad I'm going and he is going to communicate to the rest of them that I'm coming and they will be expecting me. I really hope I don't back out, it wouldn't be surprising to anyone if I did back out at the last minute but I haven't seen some of them in quite some time and apart from the overwhelming anxiety it might be nice.
Feel free to stop reading, the rest is off topic but I felt like getting it out...
To be honest the only person I really want to see is my younger cousin, she's 18 (they grow up so fast! I really need to find out if any boys have broken her heart lately and whether or not I need to break some necks. Not that I'm a violent or confrontational person at all...but she's the closest thing I have to a little sister. I would find it hard to believe that she hasn't had a boyfriend, she sent me a copy of her senior photo for the yearbook and she definitely doesn't look like a little girl anymore(Is that a ****ed up thing to say? If I believed in hell would that qualify me? **** it, it's true)). Anyway I want to see her because we've always been close and I only really get bits of information from other family members gossip that she has been going through a tough time or whatnot and I guess I have also(for like 5 or 6 years...LOL*stab self in face*). I also really sort of look up to her even though she's 4 years younger than me, she was the kind of student in school that did really well, and she seems like a really ambitious person which I'm not at all. I'm proud of her I guess is what it boils down to. Although I think our views on most everything including politics and religion are drastically different and we both seem to be the kind of people that like to hotly debate and get in peoples faces about our views...we strangely get along surprisingly well.
Wow, I went really off topic and rambled. That felt good. Cheers!