chronic blushing is horrible..

someoneelse1

someoneelse1

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chronic blushing is absolutely horrible...
im 15 in year 11 at school, and ive had it for about a year now and its just getting worse...
ill go red at anything, like today, i was in town and i saw someone i knew from my class and i went bright red when she looked at me. shes just a normal girl from my school, who hasnt been mean to me or anything. i looked at her and my face went so red i couldnt even face her and had to turn the other way...im dreading school tomorow incase she or one of my friends will ask me about it. how idiotic must i have looked??? she just looked at me, and i went bright red??? how stupid???

i dont know if you know that terrible sinking feeling, when you just want everything to stop, and you feel like your sinking deeper and deeper into despair. thats what chronic blushing feels like for me.

thats just one example of course...

thats all it takes, just for someone i know to look me in the eye or walk past me. just for someone or a teacher to call out my name in class...

i go to a girls school, and i also get terribly intimidated by extrovert/pretty/popular girls, if they talk to me ill just blush and stutter an answer. and last week me and my friends were talking about the 'popular' girls, and then one of my friends said, 'i can imagine you going bright red if [girls name] talked to you'. that of course triggered me to blush, but thankfully my friends didnt notice.. they dont understand about it, and i would never be able to tell them.

i dont feel like im in control of my life. i feel like the chronic blushing is..and i dread going to school every day, in case something will happen that will cause me to go red or make an idiot of myself.

im sorry to make a depressing post like this but this chronic blushing is making me seriously depressed, and i have to offload it all somewhere because noone will understand...

:cry: :oops:
 
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xkiss_me_nowx

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someoneelse1 said:
chronic blushing is absolutely horrible...
im 15 in year 11 at school, and ive had it for about a year now and its just getting worse...
ill go red at anything, like today, i was in town and i saw someone i knew from my class and i went bright red when she looked at me. shes just a normal girl from my school, who hasnt been mean to me or anything. i looked at her and my face went so red i couldnt even face her and had to turn the other way...im dreading school tomorow incase she or one of my friends will ask me about it. how idiotic must i have looked??? she just looked at me, and i went bright red??? how stupid???

i dont know if you know that terrible sinking feeling, when you just want everything to stop, and you feel like your sinking deeper and deeper into despair. thats what chronic blushing feels like for me.

thats just one example of course...

thats all it takes, just for someone i know to look me in the eye or walk past me. just for someone or a teacher to call out my name in class...

i go to a girls school, and i also get terribly intimidated by extrovert/pretty/popular girls, if they talk to me ill just blush and stutter an answer. and last week me and my friends were talking about the 'popular' girls, and then one of my friends said, 'i can imagine you going bright red if [girls name] talked to you'. that of course triggered me to blush, but thankfully my friends didnt notice.. they dont understand about it, and i would never be able to tell them.

i dont feel like im in control of my life. i feel like the chronic blushing is..and i dread going to school every day, in case something will happen that will cause me to go red or make an idiot of myself.

im sorry to make a depressing post like this but this chronic blushing is making me seriously depressed, and i have to offload it all somewhere because noone will understand...

:cry: :oops:
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okkkk thats jus freakyyy!!
you sound just like me! lol
im 15.. in year 11.. and i go to a girls school too.. well i did but its only just turned into a mixed school in the last few months now. and i blush alottt too.. 'and i also get terribly intimidated by extrovert/pretty/popular girls, if they talk to me ill just blush and stutter an answer.' im exactly the same sometimes with that too.. i get really intimidated when girls like that talk to me.. i think theyre gonna think im weird or something.. :roll:

i know im not ofc.. and i get told im pretty all the time.. and even so i still feel really intimidated with it..

when i read this post i felt like you were writing me all together lol!
 
someoneelse1

someoneelse1

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coincidence eh? lol

yeah, that post it pretty depressingish cos i was feelin' down that day..

dunno wat im gonna do about a boyfriend, ive had guys want to go out with me but then i get too scared to meet up incase i make an idiot of myself :roll: im also very clumsy lol...
 
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xkiss_me_nowx

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someoneelse1 said:
coincidence eh? lol

yeah, that post it pretty depressingish cos i was feelin' down that day..

dunno wat im gonna do about a boyfriend, ive had guys want to go out with me but then i get too scared to meet up incase i make an idiot of myself :roll: im also very clumsy lol...
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lol yeah. ive had boyfriends & stuffs. but they don't ever last long, i always end up dumping them =/.

like.. this guy really liked me who i met up with one time.. and we'd been talking loads on msn and he lived in my town and stuffs so id met him through a friend.. and he was real nice and stuffs.. and we did hit it off when i met up with him.. an we kissed and stuff.. but [i also did actually like someone else at the same time too..] so i was distracted too.. and well he really wanted to meet back up with me.. but i didn't bother with it and told him i didn't like him that way really..and so eventully we stopped talking.. so i fucked that one up lol :roll:

i just always seem to back off.. or get really bored..
eh. idk what it is with me and relationships. my feelings change allll the time about someone. i can really like them one minute. and go off them the next. guess im just fussy. so it's hard for me to really keep a long term boyfriend..

but now im just rambling on... :/ lol. but yeh.. very weird coincidence haha.

annnd haha yes im clumsy too.. well especially when im like put on the spot for something too.. or all the attentions on me [unless im comfortable around the people]..
 
franco

franco

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someoneelse1 said:
chronic blushing is absolutely horrible..
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I was always blushing expecially when I was in the presence of pretty women I liked. It was indeed horrible and I remember at times I started painting my cheeks with some white powder to hide the redness, but of course it made me look like a freking clown, people surely must have thought I was a moron! And then after a while, I leanred how to deal with social anxiety in general, though I didn't become the confident talker I learned to accept myself and I learned that I wasn't so bad looking or so boring. Don't fight the blushing, the more self-conscious you become the worse it becomes. Don't ever try to avoid situations because you will blush, it's only through a lot of exposure that you will be desensitized. You have to blush a lot and yet stay in the embarrassing situation and do that frequently. It will help to say to yourself when you're in such turmoil "now I am blushing but I have to endure this pain because it's only like that that I will get over it in time". And believe me YOU WILL GET OVER IT IF YOU CONFRONT IT.
 
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