NewPoster111
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Brain fog is pretty much the worst thing about SAD. Ever since I cured myself, I've been trying to describe to people as plainly as I can how they can to cure themselves. I have two other posts that both describe how I did it and how you can too.
Here's a link to my first...
http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/postt22239.html
--This article tells about my SAD history and how I figured out how to cure my SAD
Here's a link to my second...
http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/postt22430.html
--This article is more instructive about how others can cure their SAD. It tells some important things that I learned about SAD.
I think the second one is better since I hit it right on the head. But, here's what I figured out about the god dam Brain Fog...
For those of us for whom brain fog is not caused by a lack of energy or hypothyroidism, which is, believe it or not 99% of us, brain fog can be cured.
So, just what is brain fog REALLY?
--Brain fog is the result of the inability for us to live in the 1st person. When we see our actions and appearance through the eyes of others, what I call the '3rd person' persepective, our thought process immediately stops. We judge our appearance and behavior ad see which parts of us we don't like at that moment, then try to change them. We immidately fall into a depressive state as we have identified all of our negative aspects. The whole time while this is going on in the mind of the person with SAD, the people without SAD have a continuous thought process. This is because they do not see themselves through the eyes of others and therefore have an 'independent thought process.'
What does it feel like to have the 'independent thought process and how to I get it?
--To answer this, I'm going to quote one of my other articles. This article cuts to the core of SAD, which I recognized as the result of a cyclical paradox that we cannot escape...
--The question that has to be answered is this..."How does one become the person he wants to be and act the way he wants to act without thinking about the person he wants to be and the way he wants to act?"
--The answer is this... It's impossible. It can't be done. The answer is, don't try to be the person you want to be. Be yourself. If you then don't like who you are, you can change, but not without acquiring the independent thought process that results from the ability to be yourself and not view your actions and behavior in the 3rd person perspective of what others see.
--AKA STOP TRYING SOMETHING NEW EVERYDAY TO CURE THE SAD. COMMITT TO WHAT I AM SAYING- TRY TO BE YOURSELF. THINK ON IT, FIND OUT WHAT I MEAN, AND LEARN TO BE ALL OF YOURSELF IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS. I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW, BUT REMEMBER THIS...BEING YOURSELF DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN KNOW WHO YOU ARE. IF YOU ARE ABLE TO NOT THINK IN THE 3RD PERSON ABOUT HOW OTHERS PERCEIVE YOUR ACTIONS AND BEHAVIOR, YOU WILL GET THAT INDEPENDENT THOUGHT PROCESS AND YOU WILL BE YOURSELF. EVENTUALLY, ALL YOU WILL HAVE TO TELL YOURSELF BEFORE SOCIAL SITUATIONS IS 'BE ALL OF YOURSELF.' AND ONCE YOU CAN THINK FOR YOURSELF, WHAT I JUST SAID WILL TAKE ON A NEW MEANING. COMMITT TO BEING YOURSELF!!!!
If you question what I just said in any way, such as "what if you are yourself but still don't like who you are," read my other articles and the answer will come.
PLEASE REPLY AND TELL ME YOUR THOUGHTS...
Here's a link to my first...
http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/postt22239.html
--This article tells about my SAD history and how I figured out how to cure my SAD
Here's a link to my second...
http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/postt22430.html
--This article is more instructive about how others can cure their SAD. It tells some important things that I learned about SAD.
I think the second one is better since I hit it right on the head. But, here's what I figured out about the god dam Brain Fog...
For those of us for whom brain fog is not caused by a lack of energy or hypothyroidism, which is, believe it or not 99% of us, brain fog can be cured.
So, just what is brain fog REALLY?
--Brain fog is the result of the inability for us to live in the 1st person. When we see our actions and appearance through the eyes of others, what I call the '3rd person' persepective, our thought process immediately stops. We judge our appearance and behavior ad see which parts of us we don't like at that moment, then try to change them. We immidately fall into a depressive state as we have identified all of our negative aspects. The whole time while this is going on in the mind of the person with SAD, the people without SAD have a continuous thought process. This is because they do not see themselves through the eyes of others and therefore have an 'independent thought process.'
What does it feel like to have the 'independent thought process and how to I get it?
--To answer this, I'm going to quote one of my other articles. This article cuts to the core of SAD, which I recognized as the result of a cyclical paradox that we cannot escape...
--The question that has to be answered is this..."How does one become the person he wants to be and act the way he wants to act without thinking about the person he wants to be and the way he wants to act?"
--The answer is this... It's impossible. It can't be done. The answer is, don't try to be the person you want to be. Be yourself. If you then don't like who you are, you can change, but not without acquiring the independent thought process that results from the ability to be yourself and not view your actions and behavior in the 3rd person perspective of what others see.
--AKA STOP TRYING SOMETHING NEW EVERYDAY TO CURE THE SAD. COMMITT TO WHAT I AM SAYING- TRY TO BE YOURSELF. THINK ON IT, FIND OUT WHAT I MEAN, AND LEARN TO BE ALL OF YOURSELF IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS. I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW, BUT REMEMBER THIS...BEING YOURSELF DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN KNOW WHO YOU ARE. IF YOU ARE ABLE TO NOT THINK IN THE 3RD PERSON ABOUT HOW OTHERS PERCEIVE YOUR ACTIONS AND BEHAVIOR, YOU WILL GET THAT INDEPENDENT THOUGHT PROCESS AND YOU WILL BE YOURSELF. EVENTUALLY, ALL YOU WILL HAVE TO TELL YOURSELF BEFORE SOCIAL SITUATIONS IS 'BE ALL OF YOURSELF.' AND ONCE YOU CAN THINK FOR YOURSELF, WHAT I JUST SAID WILL TAKE ON A NEW MEANING. COMMITT TO BEING YOURSELF!!!!
If you question what I just said in any way, such as "what if you are yourself but still don't like who you are," read my other articles and the answer will come.
PLEASE REPLY AND TELL ME YOUR THOUGHTS...