Did I do the right thing?

dannyboy65

Well-known member
Well, I told a girl my feelings for her. She told me she had her eyes on someone else. So I wished her in the best of luck and smiled, I asked her about who he was and I chatted to her about it, trying to be happy and she thinks it doesn't bother me. Deep down it does but I guess I should move on and stay friends even though it hurts me inside, I just want to see her happy.
 

dannyboy65

Well-known member
There's still time to dwell on it.

What I mean is the old me would get angry and get mad at her I haven't done that at all and I don't plan too. On top of that I would feel worthless and depressed for weeks right when it happened. I don't feel depressed sure I feel sad but I'm not going to let it bring me down. I also don't feel angry like I used to with other people. I wish her the best of luck and I want her to be happy, even though I don't like it I realize I can not control that.
 

Argentum

Well-known member
The right thing is not to give someone (or yourself) grief just for choosing the one they really want to be with. Whether or not it hurts too much to be around them after is up to you.
 

Nazim

Banned
Move on and don't try to fix a love triangle.
I can see from your posts that you are getting better and better, so just move on and keep talking to other people.
It's great to hear that you want her to be happy but don't forget about yourself.
 

Earthcircle

Well-known member
Well, I told a girl my feelings for her. She told me she had her eyes on someone else. So I wished her in the best of luck and smiled, I asked her about who he was and I chatted to her about it, trying to be happy and she thinks it doesn't bother me. Deep down it does but I guess I should move on and stay friends even though it hurts me inside, I just want to see her happy.

There is nothing wrong with what you did.
 

MotherWolff

Banned
Well, I told a girl my feelings for her. She told me she had her eyes on someone else. So I wished her in the best of luck and smiled, I asked her about who he was and I chatted to her about it, trying to be happy and she thinks it doesn't bother me. Deep down it does but I guess I should move on and stay friends even though it hurts me inside, I just want to see her happy.

Yeah. You did alright. I know how that feels.....You will make it, I promise.:perfect:
 

MotherWolff

Banned
That's exactly what I do.

I don't care what anyone says, sleep can give you more than just rest for the physical body....the mind too! :)
 

DeLasDudasInfinitas

Well-known member
Of course you did. :thumbup: When you truly love someone you wish them happiness even if it isn't with you. I believe that girl is very lucky to have you as a friend. I hope you can overcome the hurt and keep trying because I'm sure that one day a girl will say yes to you.
 
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