do SA'ers prefer being alone and dont leave the house

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yoshi_kl said:

I'm wondering if SAers like to be alone not leaving the house or they would like to go out but they are just afraid?

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Yeh i would say thats quite usual. I was very like that when my acne was bad. I would wana hide til i cleared up.
I used a lot of positive affirmations which helped out

Spearmint said:

yoshi_kl said:

I'm wondering if SAers like to be alone not leaving the house or they would like to go out but they are just afraid?

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Bit of both, mostly i prefer to be at home but there are times when i wish i was out in the world having some fun and good times.

But i've come to realize that the biggest loss in staying at home and having no social life is missing out on women.

There's so many hot girls out there that we're leaving for other guys to enjoy... this is becoming my main motivation for improving myself.

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Hmm... yeah I think its both too. On most weekends I am at home and on some weekends, I come home from work on Friday arvo and the next time I would step out of the front door would be Monday morning to goto work.

I feel comfortable at home, yet at the same time I sometimes wish, that I was out with friends. Part of that is about being accepted, being 'normal', doing what 'normal people' do. But a bigger part is about finding a girlfriend.

-SS

bit of both really.
some really severe SAers will be the type who won't leave the house.
I am sometimes scared to go out depending on where i am going, who with and for how long. I am fine wtih going to school, but going to a supermarket... 8O noooo !
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i prefer to be at home, im not scared to go out. i just hate staying inside because doing that for long periods of time gets boring when your by yourself and you run out of things to do to entertain yourself, of course going outside doesnt help with the boredom.

yoshi_kl said:

I'm wondering if SAers like to be alone not leaving the house or they would like to go out but they are just afraid?

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I'm going to go with the majority on this one. A bit of both. Most of the time though, I prefer being alone and not leaving the house. I've gotten used to being alone I guess, and most people just piss me off.

Spearmint said:

From a male's perspective, women are here for us to enjoy.

If you don't believe me... try depriving yourself of their presence for a few years.

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I'm a male...I've deprived myself from them for more than a few years (21 to be exact). I don't view them as a piece of meat like you do though. I don't believe women are here for us to enjoy. Yes, it is good to enjoy being around them, but that is not their purpose.

Spearmint said:

I don't wish to get into a debate with a lesbian about male perspectives, because without a male body you can never have them authentically.

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Would you like to debate with a male about male perspectives? I am more than willing to debate this with you. I don't see why you dismiss someone else's perspective simply because they are not like you though...you might actually learn something. Please PM me if you wish to continue the debate.

Also, I would appreciate it if you did not speak for me again. Thanks.

Girls exist to find happiness for themselves, just like guys. Girls want to be with guys because it adds to their happiness. If a girl can be more happy with another girl then go for it. Happiness being the underlying goal of everyone it is absurd to say girls being with girls is anything less than guys being with girls

Lesbians, being girls themselves, know much more about girls then we do

I don't like being alone when I'm out of the house. I'm terrified of being alone. I like being alone at the house because I can just be a slobby, smelly, stupid person and enjoy it. I don't really smell tho :lol:

There is a part of me that wants to break out and wants to be comfortable being alone and out of the house and hates the idea of depending on other people for my happiness. I want to take my fear head on and smash it...then there is the timid side of me that still keeps me here, where I am and depressed. I can be bold, brave, daring, all those good things but the majority of the time it is the other way round

All the things you guys said are all so true about SAers. Sometimes it is simply too hard to step out of the house. We want to go and have fun, but sometimes when we are out, we feel that we want to go home, where it is so safe and away from the crowd. If only all SAers could come together and just have pure innocent fun without any judgement.