Do you cry easily?

PhantomPod

PhantomPod

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It feels like I cry SO easily. Just one bad client at work (through a phone call), and I am practically on the verge of tears by the time I hang up. I have to go into the bathroom to collect myself afterwards, so I don't just start bawling at my desk. Before I have even just saved it up and then went home on my lunch break and cried. It's so weird. Like, I get all worked up so easily. Someone can call me out or confront me on the simplest of things, and I'll be on the verge of tears and my voice will start shaking like crazy.
 
JonnyD

JonnyD

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like gramma said ... Sometimes is alright to cry.

Dont let a bad client turn you down, perhaps the person who talked to you had just a lot of problems, and crying for a business problem is not worth it, ever.

As for your question, i don't cry often... when gramma died when i was fourteen, i was the only not to cry - i loved her, but i had to hold it for my father, at least that time - then my sister said sometimes i could be a cold person... i start thinking of that and reallised that i just don't show my emotions.

these days i catch myself rolling tears after donations campaign - it's just that sometimes life can be hard and this is what makes me feel like i'm fucking egocentric and makes my problems looks like nothing - but hey i can't let it fool me , if i have a problem lets face it...
 
ChrisAtHome

ChrisAtHome

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sleepysparrow said:
I always cry. I am extremely emotional about everything. I care about everything, everyone, all the time.
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That is a special thing you got there. I wish I was not so detached within myself and wish I could be emotional. This is one of the areas in my life that causes me to dislike myself and to be critical towards my motives.

No matter what anyone says I believe crying is a good expression and release for emotions.
 
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chris87

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It's unusual for me to cry. I do get upset about things, but they have to be really bad for me to shed a tear.
 
Cyrax

Cyrax

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Not so much anymore..but when I was younger I would cry soooo easily and often..Like when I was in class I would just start crying, only a few tears but still..o_O Now I still cry somewhat easily, but now as often.. maybe once a month or whatever..
 
PhantomPod

PhantomPod

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Yeah, I guess it is just an issue of having a lot of emotional build up. Because it's not like I really ever have a shoulder to cry on or people to talk to about my issues.

But then, whenever I watch the show Extreme Makeover Home Edition, that sure gets the waterworks going too. That show was just on and I was sitting here bawling.
 
scared_of_the_moon

scared_of_the_moon

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PhantomPod said:
It feels like I cry SO easily. Just one bad client at work (through a phone call), and I am practically on the verge of tears by the time I hang up. I have to go into the bathroom to collect myself afterwards, so I don't just start bawling at my desk. Before I have even just saved it up and then went home on my lunch break and cried. It's so weird. Like, I get all worked up so easily. Someone can call me out or confront me on the simplest of things, and I'll be on the verge of tears and my voice will start shaking like crazy.
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I think I’m pretty much in the same boat. There are times when I’m extremely sensitive to criticism and feel like crying when someone is a little harsh with me or simply unfriendly. I never cry in front of others, but when I’m at home in my room I usually can’t suppress my tears anymore. Actually I’m beginning to wonder why no one has seen me crying by now considering how often I do it, mostly in the evening.

What you said about your work reminds me of my work experience in the ninth grade when I had to help out at a veterinary clinic (it was only for three weeks though). I used to go home at lunchtime to cry since I felt uncomfortable almost every day being with people who paid little attention to me. I suppose I had a hard time making myself noticed.
 
silentworld

silentworld

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Well thats one of the reasons that sometimes i say to myself that if it wasnt for those child problems and bad times at school you know bullying and all that crap i wouldnt be who i am today, sort of cold but still care about a few people... so thanks to that i barely cry hahaha
 
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slimjim119

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No, I don't cry that easily. But the few times I have(in private of course), I felt really good afterwards. It is a great release of bottled up emotions.
 
CPA23

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vollo said:
It sounds like you have a lot of emotional build up.

Like, I tend to bottle things up and can lash out at the smallest annoyance because I have all this surpressed anger. I don't cry easily, though.
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I CAN TOTALLY RELATE TO THAT! I remembered about 6 months ago, I kinda went off on this dude at work. He know I didn't mean it, but there were so much that was on my mind. Him reminding me of it makes me feel guilty.
 
hbanana11

hbanana11

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I dont cry easily..im more likely to just get pissed off from something. Very rarely do I ever get to the point where I just break down and cry. Although, the occasional sad movie will make me teary :wink:
 
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