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Old 10-11-2009  
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Default Do you feel like a loser?

Sorry to provoke any negative emotions and this is probably a thread several times over, but i need some help.

Basically this avoidant personality, just makes me feel weak. Why can't i just open my mouth and say something... It's just frustrating. I mean it's like easy. All of this is in my head. All i am doing is making myself miserable... If i could make a few friends my life would be great.

But then do people actually wanna be my friend. Maybe i am annoying and boring and irrating and stupid and in actual fact it's not in my head. In actual fact i am just a loser quiet simply.

Then another thing that has just made me feel like shit today is the fact my mum wants to come and visit me at uni> I told her no. NOT because i am ashamed of her. But because i am ashamd of myself. Because i am not living the 'uni' life tht i want to live. Because i am not at the centre of things or even have any cool friends. I don't want her to realise what an actual loser i am.

Sorry for this post. But well i just need to get this out...
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I most certainly do feel like a loser.
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I certainly feel like a loser because I look like one!
I might be nice, intelligent, sensitive, whatever, but people can only see me like a big loser, you know, the typical total loser, because that's what I look like on the outside. It bothers me because I feel judged, under pressure, like I always need to demonstrate something. Screw it.
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Yes I feel like a big pathetic loser, because I am one.
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Yep.......
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Nope I'm not a loser.

Losers let it happen where as winners make it happen. So if your not trying then yes I can see why youd think that

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Yes. I feel like the biggest loser every weekend i sit inside with my mum and her bf (who i hate and would much rather be anywhere else but where i am) and i sit there well in the other room watching tv... knowing that they know i'm a complete loser with no friends.. i feel so uncool.
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Old 10-12-2009  
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Only sometimes. Most of the time I do not feel like either a loser or a winner. I just accept reality and try to do something about it if its not how I want it to be, which is what I've been doing lately.

What is a winner anyway? A highly social person with a lot of friends that often goes out and has no anxiety?

I consider a winner to be someone successful at their goals and also someone who has had some sort of impact to this world, be it small or big. With that being said, there are a lot of winners out there with probably more awkward personalities than you, me and anyone else in here. (ie, Bill Gates perhaps? Not sure but he seems pretty awkward to me and I doubt he had much of a social life)

Don't take it too seriously man, just take action upon it! Face your fears and repeat, repeat, repeat. Look into an university and start thinking of goals and your future.

Best wishes.
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Yeah, often times I do, but I just make it my thing. Whether I'm a 'loser' or not, I'm fine with it. I do my own thing, and if that's not cool enough for everyone, well, they can all *insert inappropriate phrase here*.

&I'm sure there are people who'd love to be your friend. How I think of it, unless you're horribly mean [which you don't seem like it], there's someone who wants&needs a friend like you. You might just be looking in the wrong places. Sooner or later you'll stumble along some rad people.
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Old 10-25-2009  
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Yes. What keeps me going is that I know that I have the potential to not be a loser. The only problem is that I have been saying that to myself for my entire life, yet I still can't break the cycle that I am in.
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