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Old 03-19-2012  
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Default Do you feel like you don't trust anyone else anymore?

When I listen to people talking, I don't take it seriously and I don't even believe it. People can be hypocrites at times, they say something but it's not even true. Some of my family is like that. They say something but it's not even true.
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I feel I cannot trust anyone so I don't say much to them.

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Not exactly. I dont think anyone can trust someone 100% of the time.
For me its more about questioning integrity - I dont really feel like society values the right things. I observe peoples behaviour and I get suspicions about their motives and whats really driving them to do what it is that they are doing.....I cant be sure though, I can never be sure.... but usually I come to some cynical conclusion, mostly because I have a bias that thats how things really are anyway.

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Not exactly. I dont think anyone can trust someone 100% of the time.
It takes a special relationship for someone to trust someone else completely. I know couples who absolutely don't trust each other around the opposite sex, and my best friend and his ex, when they were dating, absolutely trusted each other. I remember times when she would hug me and kiss me on the cheek and hold my hand right in front of him. I miss those days. That's another story, though, so yeah, my point is that it takes a special person to trust.

Trust is also a very important link in the bonding chain, too. Without trust it goes nowhere.
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... my best friend and his ex, when they were dating, absolutely trusted each other. I remember times when she would hug me and kiss me on the cheek and hold my hand right in front of him.
That's beautiful.
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That's beautiful.
I really envied their relationship because he's my best friend and she's one of the nicest girls I've ever met. It's an absolute tragedy that they split, but they say it's for the best so I can only go by their word. They're actually still really good friends today.

She was really cute, too. Now I don't see her much.
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Trust is also a very important link in the bonding chain, too. Without trust it goes nowhere.
It may not even be about behaviour.

Simply trust that the bond is there.
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It may not even be about behaviour.

Simply trust that the bond is there.
Very true. Wise words.
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I'm never really able to fully trust someone, for me it's rather opening up to the risk of being deceived. When I don't consider people worthy of that risk, I watch their every move and dissect everything they say.

When I do consider them worth the risk, I tend to force myself to stop analyzing and see the know-everything-all-the-time factor I have to give up as a sacrifice for having this wonderful person in my life.

With that said, I don't mind being lied to as long as the motive isn't some lazy way manipulate me for personal gain.

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It's hard for me to answer this, sometimes I think I'm naive and trust people way too much; other times I don't at all. The naive attitude tends to be towards strangers, for some reason.

When it comes to people I'm more personally involved with, I tend to have less trust - I think because I have more paranoia, because I care more about that person. I'm not paranoid about the things I don't care about. I'm trying to trust people more though... purely by physically trying to analyse stuff less. Have fallen off-track with that a bit over the past few days but it's the way I usually try to be.

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