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Old 05-20-2010  
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Default Do you hate your personality?

That's where I am right now. I despise the fact that I rarely have anything interesting or funny to say. Especially the part about having something humorous to say. Humor, to me, is a big part of communication.

It's like I've lost the feel of what is actually funny and what isn't. And the thing that kills me is that I wasn't always this way. In the past I was described as fairly funny and outgoing. I don't know what I need to do to improve this. Any ideas?
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I've lost the confidence to judge that as well ;c

And I used to be very funny and outgoing, just a few years ago. Now I'm.... I don't even know :|

Sometimes my friend bring this up and ask why and I just shrug
Yeah....it's tough. I'm so tired of struggling with this.
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Yes I hate my personality. Actually I don't even have one. I'm a waste of space.
When I feel like this.....I try to remind myself to stay motivated and to keep trying. I hope the same works for you.
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I think i like my personality - I can make people laugh ( i get this from my uncle ) I care about people, Im kind........... ah can't think of much more! But I don't dislike my personality - I just need to believe in myself more.
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There are parts of my personality which I dislike, all the blech bits like the arrogance, impatience, and selfishness, but the rest of my personality I like a lot. I'm not really good at making people laugh but so long as I'm not offending someone when I'm talking to them, I don't see any reason to complain about it.
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I don't like everything like I hate being shy or selfish or self-center ( not all the time). I also hate the fact that I can be my biggest contradiction but in general I love myself
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I don't *hate* my personality as such. I often don't like the way I first react to things though: like even though I consider myself "cured" of SA, when I go into a room filled with people my first thoughts are to turn and run, even if this is just for half a second before I get a grip on it; it never goes away completely. It's the same for other thoughts, the first thing that usually enters my mind is the most negative until I stop and think. This I don't like but the question is - which part is the "true" me? The initial reaction or the part that over-rides it and says "hey, lets not think like that"? So I believe that even if you do hate your personality the answer is (relatively) simple: change it. Just remember; there's good in all of us
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Despiiisee.
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I like my personality, the problem is no one else does :S

So maybe I hate that my personality is hated? lol

One good thing about music, when it hits you feel no pain.
-Bob Marley
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