I was always kind of on the borderline. I could never tell if I was good looking or not, cause my mood was always affecting how I saw myself. But mostly in high school I thought I was hideous, and my body language reflected that. Result = no girlfriends. But some years later after doing CBT, SA went down, confidence went up, looks actually went down, as I didn't care about it so much, but got girls. Crazy.
And Banvard, you really look like the guy on the show Just Shoot Me - he was always dating models.