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Old 07-01-2006  
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Default Does anyone else spend a lot of time daydreaming?

I do that a lot. Actually Im probably addicted to daydreaming, dreaming of being some one I am not, being at places I have never been and probably would never be etc. I read somewhere that daydreams can also be the cause of extreme shyness, leading to SP. I am not sure if this is true but I sure would like to know if I am the only one with foolish fantasies I know would never come true :oops:
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I do that a lot. Actually Im probably addicted to daydreaming, dreaming of being some one I am not, being at places I have never been and probably would never be etc. I read somewhere that daydreams can also be the cause of extreme shyness, leading to SP. I am not sure if this is true but I sure would like to know if I am the only one with foolish fantasies I know would never come true :oops:
Hehehe, your not the only one with foolish fantasies, I daydream alot too, especially at school. Actually i enjoy them, becuz im always the 'one' in my own world. Sometimes, My daydreams are not fantasies, were negative thoughts raise up high. So, I guess Fantasies and Not Relating to the Real world is Good Relieve, it Helps alot in relaxing and remembering where the hell i am in that moment!

Daydreaming Helps :
Relaxing, Manage Conflict, Maintain Relationships, Boost productivity, Cement your beliefs and values, Boost creativity and achieve goals,
Relieve boredom.
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babel,

I feel most people want to 'become' someone. Someone better, stronger, more likeable, happier, smarter, funnier, calmer etc.

We hold such high expectations of ourself to be this amazing perfect being and we dream of the day we finally transform into that beutiful butterfly.

Unfortunately, this comes at the price of non self acceptance. Because we hold this image of a future 'me' where we feel we would be happy, we squander any chances of accepting who we currently are thereby ruining our experience of contentment and peace.

Our current image of 'me' or self is pretty unrealistic which is why self confidence is shaky and unbalnaced. It doesnt fit in with how we want to be so we cannot accept it but this is crucial in developing confidence in our self. For we must accept what we can and cannot do and be happy with it, else we always face not being good enough or living up to how we 'think' we should be.

Daydreaming like this is based on desire. Essentially a desire to be happy. But to be happy we must accept our current capabilities. When we find this level of self acceptance it doesnt matter how we act or what we can do, we stop judging ourself and just relax. Then we naturally find this imagined perfect us is nothing more than just accepting ourself right now.

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That is so true Jack!!!..you have touched on something very basic to our problem which is our unwillingness to accept and love ourselves for who we are. I keep trying to change my thought about myself and let me know that I am alright as I am but ever so often I find myself drifting off again. And it FEELS SOO GOOD in those fantasies :oops:

Really wish I could stop them..really trying hard... :roll:
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I daydream way too much. I can be doing anything and my mind will just drift off.

"Purity of heart is to will one thing." - Soren Kierkegaard
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I daydream so much- I lead my life in my thoughts rather than reality.
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Yea I day dream all the time.My mind always starts to drift when i'm doing something.May be I use it as a escape from the real world.lol
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I daydream all the time about my hopes for the future. Its probably the only thing keeping me from losing my mind and falling into depression.
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I daydream a lot too. Just I'm not sure whether I daydream because of SA or I became SA because I daydream a lot
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I daydream alot. Mostly about fighting and sex.
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