Does it bother you to see other people kissing?

shybutsexy

Well-known member
It kinda bothers me a little bit when i see two people kissing on the street, this is something that i just havent been able to overcome. Whenever i see people making out i just cant stand to watch, it makes me uncomfortable and pretty depressed, i dont know why, its not that it disgusts me or anything, maybe its cause im just a little jelous and i start to think that im never gonna have that, idk. But the thing is that they are everywhere, specially in school, everywhere i look theres two people making out, touching and more in public, and i have deal with it everyday at school, i try to not pay attention to it but its really hard because they are evrywhere i go. Does this happens to any of you?
 

Alistair

Well-known member
Shy,

This one depends, I mean, it doesn't effect me much as it use to since I've gotten married. I mean, if it's a cute little quick kiss, compared to might as well get a room? Yeah, there is a thresh hold, and that's where I put it.

With the rest of it? I've never been a touchy like person, well, holding hands, and all of that jazz. What's the point? Maybe I'm afraid of human touch, with things like that, but there is no need to have a public display of affection for the sake of everyone else. =D If your happy, and you know your together, good for you! Hehe. Don't make a big deal out of it.

Maybe I'm odd. Ha!
 

Phoenixx

Well-known member
This has always bothered me. I think it has to do with jealousy. I know when I see it I instantly feel kinda disgusted, depressed, and somewhat jealous.
 
In the past I used to be depressed too when I did see people kissing on the street, I was afraid of never having a relationship, i was 14 back then and i thought i would never meet someone my entire life because the girls i had crushes on were straight or lesbian and weren't interested into me, so that was basically making me feel insecure. When I started dating I met people I had a vibe with and some I didn't feel the click . It helped me a lot feeling better that I got some experiences with relationships. Now I have a relationship so it doesn't really bother me, but I do feel uncomfortable when people kiss in front of my face, when I'm in company with them, I have 2 friends, they were in a relationship and they were kissing and cuddling all the time around me and romp eachother, i was like.. euuuh.. okay, I felt a little left over.
So I know what you mean, but hey my advice for you is go dating, you might meet the love of your dreams :D

But I know what you mean, seeing people kissing on the street is a bit awkward lol
 

Toomuchfear

Well-known member
I know what you mean. Feels like a kick in the teeth doesn't it? I feel they should turn around and say "This is what you could have....but you can't haha"

It is not just kissing I hate, but seeing groups of friends having fun too. Sometimes I see beautiful women with ugly and boring guys... even they are doing better than me. It makes me feel inferior, no one is too keen on wanting to be around me.
 

Simmy

Active member
Yeah kind of..I wouldn't say it bothers me, because the whole lacking social integration is plaguing away at me as it is usually when I'm outside

But it provokes something inside of me that is for sure, perhaps a little bit of jealousy like other posters have highlighted
 

Hellhound

Super Moderator
It doesn't depress me, it makes me uncomfortable.

It only bothers me just a bit if someone tells me how they spent time with their special someone and what they did. I am happy for them and I seriously wish them the best, but at the same time I feel bitter and maybe a little jealous.
 

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
At first I'm like "awwwwww," but once I realize it's not a movie and I'm not supposed to be staring I get a bit uncomfortable because I'm not exactly sure where I'm should be looking.
 

shybutsexy

Well-known member
I don't mind seeing little displays of affection like nudges and quick kisses etc but when its full blown tongues and everything I find it a little awkward.

Shy,

This one depends, I mean, it doesn't effect me much as it use to since I've gotten married. I mean, if it's a cute little quick kiss, compared to might as well get a room? Yeah, there is a thresh hold, and that's where I put it.

Yeah, the more trashy and less inocent the kiss is, the more unconfortable i feel, because some people really cross the line. But it even bothers me when i see people hugging and cudling, people holding hands doesnt really bother me that much but it still gives me a little jealousy ;p

In the past I used to be depressed too when I did see people kissing on the street, I was afraid of never having a relationship, i was 14 back then and i thought i would never meet someone my entire life because the girls i had crushes on were straight or lesbian and weren't interested into me, so that was basically making me feel insecure. When I started dating I met people I had a vibe with and some I didn't feel the click . It helped me a lot feeling better that I got some experiences with relationships. Now I have a relationship so it doesn't really bother me, but I do feel uncomfortable when people kiss in front of my face, when I'm in company with them, I have 2 friends, they were in a relationship and they were kissing and cuddling all the time around me and romp eachother, i was like.. euuuh.. okay, I felt a little left over.
So I know what you mean, but hey my advice for you is go dating, you might meet the love of your dreams :D

But I know what you mean, seeing people kissing on the street is a bit awkward lol

Thanks, yeah its because im single that it bothers me, and i also feel like im the only who doesnt have a relationship and the only one who doesnt have that kind of affection with another person, if i was in a relationship it probably wouldnt bother me at all.


I know what you mean. Feels like a kick in the teeth doesn't it? I feel they should turn around and say "This is what you could have....but you can't haha"

It is not just kissing I hate, but seeing groups of friends having fun too. Sometimes I see beautiful women with ugly and boring guys... even they are doing better than me. It makes me feel inferior, no one is too keen on wanting to be around me.

Exactly, thats just how i feel, like they are doing it just to tell me "haha we can have this and you cant..." it sucks. And yeah i also hate seing friends hanging out and having fun cause it feels like i cant have that either ::(: . The beautiful women with the ugly guys i see it too very often, it also feels like a kick on the teeth, like you are not worth anything at all...


It doesn't depress me, it makes me uncomfortable.

It only bothers me just a bit if someone tells me how they spent time with their special someone and what they did. I am happy for them and I seriously wish them the best, but at the same time I feel bitter and maybe a little jealous.

For me it makes me unconfortable because it depresses me, if it wouldnt depress me or make me jealous i definatly wouldnt care for it, and i dont think i would make me unconfortable.

At first I'm like "awwwwww," but once I realize it's not a movie and I'm not supposed to be staring I get a bit uncomfortable because I'm not exactly sure where I'm should be looking.

lol i think you should look wherever you want, if they dont like to be looked at then they should be the ones getting a room. But i admire you that you can say "awwwwww..." when you see them, me all i can say when i see two people making out is "ewwww..." and "dammit!...", "im such a loser...".
 

MelonCollie

Active member
I feel you on this one. It depresses me a lot, because there's two people kinda showing off what I don't have but what I wish I could have.
 

Poo_Guru

New member
Im kinda the opposite, I feel weird about PDA with my boyfriend just because I feel like people are watching me and thinking 'get a room' or that Im making people feel uncomfortable.
 
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