Does she like me?

So there is this girl in my college who I hangout with and talk to a lot on facebook. Today she told me when I was leaving the college she loved talking to me and that I made her happy when I talked to her. Just a minute ago she started messaging me and saying she had a great time hanging out with me. She is also very open with me, she told me she had higher functioning autism like I do.

Only problem is she is in a relationship. But her boyfriend treats her like trash they last seen eachother last Tuesday and that was the last they spoke. He started on the job training and moved back to his home town without telling her. Also when he was in the cafeteria and she was sitting alone he would go to his friends and ignore her.

I'm not going to try and break them up or anything. I admit I do like her, but I want her to be happy with who she chooses.

Do you guys think she likes me?

I'm pretty sure she likes you. It sounds like it anyways. If you like her I think you should tell her. Relationships don't equate to ownership, so even though she has a boyfriend she's still allowed to like other people; especially if her boyfriend is as mean as you describe. It's like just because hockey teams have goalies doesn't mean you can't score

PhillipJFry said:

I'm pretty sure she likes you. It sounds like it anyways. If you like her I think you should tell her. Relationships don't equate to ownership, so even though she has a boyfriend she's still allowed to like other people; especially if her boyfriend is as mean as you describe. It's like just because hockey teams have goalies doesn't mean you can't score

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That is sort of what I thought. I don't really like how her boyfriend treats her, he treats her like she doesn't even exist. She is a sweet girl and I think she deserves better. But I'm not going to break them up because that wouldn't feel right.

From a girl's perspective, a girl will not spend so much time and effort if she is not in to you unless there is another motive.

It sounds like she at the very least enjoys your company. Hard to say whether its anything more considering she has a boyfriend. I guess you will just have to find out.

He's good, they're dating now.