Originally Posted by A86
Thats awesome. understanding what is happening is a good move forward as it is usualy near impossible to explain to an emotional manipulator what they are doing because their natural instict is to turn it around and make you feel bad for even trying to suggest such a thing... and they can be very effective at turning it around.
I know, everything's turned around constantly. Ive tried explaining it and challenging them but that's made matters worse. I just got "How can you say that" , "Youre not normal" (which Ive been told several times) "Something happened in the womb when you were concieved" , "Why have I ended up with someone like you".
Writing it and discussing it makes me see how disgusting the treatment has been towards me.