rosewood
Well-known member
Everything you are describing seems to fit within the parameters of domestic violence. If you want to, you can look up the info online:
Domestic Violence - Power and Control Wheel
yes, you are not in a marriage or relationship, but these people seem to be doing the same activities as seen by an abuser. I would access Domestic Violence sites and find out how much what they are doing matches abuser behavior so you can know for yourself. Seeing this info in black and white and recognizing it and being able to Name it is really helpful in getting away. Some things you should know: that kind of behavior creates depression within an individual to the point where they cant think. That makes it hard for the person to leave. Also, i used to be married to a man who does what your dad does: runs at you full tilt like they will hit you and then comes up short. Thiis is called Threat by Intimidation and is absolutely abuse.
I am sorry you are forced to endure this. If you can develop a Safety Plan: ie- have all of your documents in one place, stash money away, get acces to a vehicle, establish a safe location to escape to, and have at least one person who knows what is really happening there nearby, it might help. The enviroment doesnt sound safe.
Domestic Violence - Power and Control Wheel
yes, you are not in a marriage or relationship, but these people seem to be doing the same activities as seen by an abuser. I would access Domestic Violence sites and find out how much what they are doing matches abuser behavior so you can know for yourself. Seeing this info in black and white and recognizing it and being able to Name it is really helpful in getting away. Some things you should know: that kind of behavior creates depression within an individual to the point where they cant think. That makes it hard for the person to leave. Also, i used to be married to a man who does what your dad does: runs at you full tilt like they will hit you and then comes up short. Thiis is called Threat by Intimidation and is absolutely abuse.
I am sorry you are forced to endure this. If you can develop a Safety Plan: ie- have all of your documents in one place, stash money away, get acces to a vehicle, establish a safe location to escape to, and have at least one person who knows what is really happening there nearby, it might help. The enviroment doesnt sound safe.