Avalon_Moon
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I've never been in a relationship. I find people attractive who I connect with and who have a strength of character. I've only ever fancied 3 people (im 23) when I like someone I like them for a long period of time, not flippantly like most people seem to be, I like them for a year or so I truely admire there character etc. Unfortunately the first guy turned out to be gay, the second guy liked me back aswell but told me he had a girlfriend and the 3rd guy was twice my age and I did'nt like the age gap.
The times when I meet someone I like are amazing and my life seems magical with them around. Im just abit concerned that in all these times of meeting someone I was either at college or university, life the wa sdiffernt my life felt full and I was happy and had a social group. My friends have always had partners but when I left uni 3 years ago now all my friends have moved in with partners and dont seem to need their me anymore. Ive not fancied anyone in 3 years, not had a chance to meet people really as I have no one to socialise with. I joined clubs etc but I feel detached and not really part of anything, because of this im not really my happy self as I was and I know this is adding to why Im not finding anyone.
I feel very lonely in my situation, even everyone at my work is married or partnered up,and I dont want to attract the wrong person, I want to attract someone whos on my level.
Im just abit worried i wont beable to get my spirit/natural personality back and attract the people I used to. I know that only liking people every blue moon is also limiting my chances of ever being with someone.
If anyone has had a similiar experience and things have worked out for you please can you post me Im needing some reassurrance. Many Thanks
The times when I meet someone I like are amazing and my life seems magical with them around. Im just abit concerned that in all these times of meeting someone I was either at college or university, life the wa sdiffernt my life felt full and I was happy and had a social group. My friends have always had partners but when I left uni 3 years ago now all my friends have moved in with partners and dont seem to need their me anymore. Ive not fancied anyone in 3 years, not had a chance to meet people really as I have no one to socialise with. I joined clubs etc but I feel detached and not really part of anything, because of this im not really my happy self as I was and I know this is adding to why Im not finding anyone.
I feel very lonely in my situation, even everyone at my work is married or partnered up,and I dont want to attract the wrong person, I want to attract someone whos on my level.
Im just abit worried i wont beable to get my spirit/natural personality back and attract the people I used to. I know that only liking people every blue moon is also limiting my chances of ever being with someone.
If anyone has had a similiar experience and things have worked out for you please can you post me Im needing some reassurrance. Many Thanks
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