even on MSN ppl ignore me..

lonesomeboy

Well-known member
I got a whole list of people on my MSN from SA forums and other places, and I find even online my boring uncharismatic personality shines through. I get ppl adding me, we talk abit with small chit chat and after a while they stop messaging me. I say 'hello' and then the talk fizzes out, Iam always the one having to initiate it and I hate it. anyways just venting.
 

loriingram

Member
I get the same thing I'll chat with someone a couple times and then they just start ignoring me. or I'll find the ocasional guy that wants more then inocent chats and so I have to try to get rid of him but other then that I cant keep anyone on chating with me for more then a week. Its got to the point where I start deleting people after about a month.
 

Remus

Moderator
Staff member
I have MSN turned off at the mo, havnt talked on it for ages, I'm reclusing

on the up side I'm doing more in real life and seeing freinds/family etc
 

lonesomeboy

Well-known member
chav u already added me in the past. ur nice and cool. but i feel uneasy chatting to a 13 year old girl, and iam 26 year old guy.
 

arachnid

Member
Don't be afraid to say random things that come in your mind. Conversations don't have to be( in fact usually they are best when ) not planned out.
 

cob

New member
ugh, msn is depressing, yet i can't seem to stop signing in. and i hardly talk to anyone on there..
i recently made a new email account and typed "add me..." as my screen name, and only 5 ppl have added me out of 50 :( :( shows how interesting i really am
 

carebear

Well-known member
yep..i have forum and chatroom shyness too. not just shyness w/people.
and when I feel like people are rejecting me online it makes me feel rejected when i go out into the world.
Has anyone ever gone to www.habbohotel.com
ooohhhh..this will make you feel really shy... you get to walk around like the sims and create your own character but it;s free.

what a nightmare. :oops:
 
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