dannyboy65
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I've dated 4 woman and am currently dating a girl I've been friends with for 4 years. We both have autism and aren't ashamed of it. We are both college students and currently work 6 days a week. We are both very positive people and very open. She told me big secrets so I would know although I never asked and I've told her my secrets.
I feel very confident about this relationship, which personally I never felt before with my ex's as we always just jumped into it and didn't get to know each other. But not with the girl I'm seeing it took me 4 years of friendship just to ask her out then it took 2 months just to kiss. Yet this whole journey has been amazing. We have had phone calls where one of us was in tears. We revealed dark secrets and still never thought different of each other. Yet after everything we are happy.
She is becoming more confident as well when we met she would barely talk. When we started talking a lot it took her 3 days to start to warm up. Even her appearance took time for the first time on Thursday she wore a dress when she only ever wears long pants and a t shirt. She kept asking if she looked pretty nervously and Everytime I told her she was gorgeous. In the beginning hugging was tough and we only did in private. Eventually we started to hug in public which is great. Even holding hands we did alone before public so she was comfortable. To kiss me we first kissed cheeks and hands a lot then I told her I'd guide her through.
We kissed to early and it stressed her out cause she didn't understand if it was OK or to fast.although it set us back but we got back up slowed down and went at a better pace for her. Another month passed we started to hold hands in public and that night we kissed again but this time she was ready and now she kisses me in public, holds my hand, hell she even cuddles sometimes.
But the biggest thing I noticed is after I kiss her or kiss her cheek, or hold her hand she just smiles. I've never seen anyone genuinely happy just to have me. I see her glance at me and smile when she thinks I'm not looking. I just find that amazing cause no girl I've been with has been that happy with me like her.
Sorry about the long post I'm just curious, do you people have a relationship like this? Do you think this is going to be very good for me? I feel like it will be I'm just curious on thoughts?
I feel very confident about this relationship, which personally I never felt before with my ex's as we always just jumped into it and didn't get to know each other. But not with the girl I'm seeing it took me 4 years of friendship just to ask her out then it took 2 months just to kiss. Yet this whole journey has been amazing. We have had phone calls where one of us was in tears. We revealed dark secrets and still never thought different of each other. Yet after everything we are happy.
She is becoming more confident as well when we met she would barely talk. When we started talking a lot it took her 3 days to start to warm up. Even her appearance took time for the first time on Thursday she wore a dress when she only ever wears long pants and a t shirt. She kept asking if she looked pretty nervously and Everytime I told her she was gorgeous. In the beginning hugging was tough and we only did in private. Eventually we started to hug in public which is great. Even holding hands we did alone before public so she was comfortable. To kiss me we first kissed cheeks and hands a lot then I told her I'd guide her through.
We kissed to early and it stressed her out cause she didn't understand if it was OK or to fast.although it set us back but we got back up slowed down and went at a better pace for her. Another month passed we started to hold hands in public and that night we kissed again but this time she was ready and now she kisses me in public, holds my hand, hell she even cuddles sometimes.
But the biggest thing I noticed is after I kiss her or kiss her cheek, or hold her hand she just smiles. I've never seen anyone genuinely happy just to have me. I see her glance at me and smile when she thinks I'm not looking. I just find that amazing cause no girl I've been with has been that happy with me like her.
Sorry about the long post I'm just curious, do you people have a relationship like this? Do you think this is going to be very good for me? I feel like it will be I'm just curious on thoughts?