feels like people tell me what to do and I never do it..

no1

Banned
anyone feel this way?

like people tell u what to do, and they get fed up because you make an excuse or you really feel like you can't do it. like they just don't understand my condition.

or you try but it doesn't work. then they tell you just be grateful. then they say it's all your fault. everything all your problems are all your fault because you never listen to anyone and you are just so ungrateful, etc. etc.

I feel like everywhere I go people are just annoyed by the person I am, just being me. I feel like I can't do what normal people can. like live a life on their own or something.

I duno I just dunno..

I feel really out of it today Im sorry. I feel extra dumb.. like I have lost my mind or Im becoming stupid.
 

no12

Banned
bumpers..

yeah.. anyone feel like this though? am I the only one? I just can't bring myself to do some things people say to "JUST DO AND STOP BEING A PUSSY AND BE GRATEFUL", etc.


ITS ALL ABOUT ACTION, ACTION, ACTION!!!!!!! they say

yet I haven't been able to. maybe they dont understand? maybe I don't?

argh...

edit: the people who tell me what to do might also think that I just WANT to stay the same. that is simply untrue, and sometimes no matter how hard I tried to convince them, they still thought the same. and called me selfish.
I understand people can get fed up, because they feel as if they're trying their damned hardest to help, but it just doesn't do anything. and then they think the person they're trying to help is just being selfish and pulling their leg, as if help is not appreciated, because I may not try the things they tell me to do. they accuse me of not wanting to help myself!
:roll:

*head spins*

I expect someone to answer me "because you're selfish and neurotic, and stupid and ungrateful, you want to keep having problems and you want to drag others down with you, etc. etc. etc."
 

Ubersonic

Well-known member
I think it's a lack of motivation. Try to think of something you want, a goal.

I've recently set a goal, meet a respectable girl. It motivates me to go out more.

The goal "to make myself a better person" is too open. Set something specific.
 
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