Finally had the guts to put up a pic

noonecares86

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I always post about people not liking me and looking at me bad and people wanted to see what i look like so i finally had the guts to have a user picture. Tell me what you think.
 
Hello noonecares86,

What you did is a step forward in your battle against anxiety and self-acceptance. I applaud you.

I think you are a charming woman, I like your blue eyes.
 
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slimjim119

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Nice pic. Pretty. I have no idea why people would be giving you dirty looks. There are a lot of guys out there who would take you out. You have to work on your self esteem issues.
 

noonecares86

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Thank you so much slimjim :) Your right my self esteem is so bad and so hard to change it, i've been thinking negatively for years.
 

slimjim119

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Yeah and it's never too late to turn your life around. It's going to take a lot of effort on your part. I've been having negative thoughts for years. I learned most of them are irrational.
 

noonecares86

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It's worth it then all the work, no matter how long it takes. I'm glad you have gotten better it's nice to know it's possible.
 

grapevine

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Your gorgeous. It's a neg mentality that's warps how others see u / how u think they see you.

I'm happy you have pushed yourself - I need to do the same. I hate photos of me - I have a phobia and having some recently taken without knowing killed any positive body image I had.
 

noonecares86

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Thank you slimjim

grapevine- Thank you so much, i'm sure you look great, it's a relief once you post it trust me :)
 
I have to confess that I've had the similar apprehensions when it came to posting pictures of myself, let alone recording my voice.

Lately I have completely overcome these fears by even making some videos of myself on Youtube.
If a not so good-looking guy like me managed to do it, then so could a gorgeous woman such as yourself!

The thing is to vanquish the self consciousness that prevents you from acting naturally around people. And believe me that there is no magic potion for this to happen, it's all up to your will. It is as easy as not giving a toss about people that surround you.
 
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24 and still lack basic courage. so I applaud you and your bravery.

Hope you keep it up, and good luck.
P.S hope this doesn't come off wrong, but the blue eyes are lovely.
 

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Very pretty. :perfect:

Sorry, there's not much else to say that hasn't already been said in the other posts. Though, well done for posting a picture of yourself. :thumbup:
I always get anxious about doing that, myself. I also get people giving me dirty looks, so yer not alone in regards.

Your eyes are very striking in that pic.
 

arjuna

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It could be a step to make you happier. I congratulate you on doing it. Nevertheless, I would give it more merit if the person posting it were horrendous, as if they had been in a car accident and didn't have the money for plastic surgery.

I look forward to a time when everyone is accepting of everybody else independent of physical traits and non-damaging personality ones.
 

Sacrament

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It could be a step to make you happier. I congratulate you on doing it. Nevertheless, I would give it more merit if the person posting it were horrendous, as if they had been in a car accident and didn't have the money for plastic surgery.

I look forward to a time when everyone is accepting of everybody else independent of physical traits and non-damaging personality ones.

To be fair, in her mind, she's probably 'horrendous', or at least similar, given how scared she was to share her picture.
 
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