alex29
Well-known member
I was with three friends today who started talking about their plans for the weekend and I was just completly left out of them. It hurts enough knowing the don't even consider me when i'm not around...but I was standingright there! they talked about who they were going to invite all excitedly and I stood there like an idiot.
I didnt really want to go anyway but it would have been nice if they had at least offerred an invitation to me. this is nothing new but its usually done when Im not standing right there.
it makes me wonder who is a worse friend....them for not including me at all with anything they do, or me for never taking the initiative with getting plans together. I guess I expect them to realize I dont ask to be included, I dont want to have to ask to be included.
I am afraid I appear that I dont have fun in social situations (I do sometimes, I just dont seem to show it) and then they dont want me there ruining there good time.
has anyone experienced this?
I didnt really want to go anyway but it would have been nice if they had at least offerred an invitation to me. this is nothing new but its usually done when Im not standing right there.
it makes me wonder who is a worse friend....them for not including me at all with anything they do, or me for never taking the initiative with getting plans together. I guess I expect them to realize I dont ask to be included, I dont want to have to ask to be included.
I am afraid I appear that I dont have fun in social situations (I do sometimes, I just dont seem to show it) and then they dont want me there ruining there good time.
has anyone experienced this?