from agoraphobic guy

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I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm just a bipolar guy ::. Anyway, welcome to the forums rustyrus303

um.....I am a girl, but I am not agoraphobic.
I can still welcome you to SPW can't I?
Welcome rustyrus!

Hi there, welcome here.. I used to be agoraphobic, too. btw

Welcome to the forum! I have agoraphobia too.

Hey there rus, it's nice to have you here.

I hope you feel better soon.

hope you get better soon!

Trust me I know how agoraphobia can effect the bonds we have with people. I haven't left the house in almost two years and it has shown me that people get annoyed with you once they realize your not going to snap out of it. Good luck finding an agoraphobic girlfriend. Although maybe that only seems hard to me cause I forget not all agoraphobics are completely housebound. Here is a question for people. Does dating improve or worsen conditions cause I'm 20 almost 21 never dated and dont know whether its worth it or not. My thought is why the hell would I want to tie someone to this house. If I even let then come over. Yup definitly no bf for me.

haha this is awesome.

I can't wait till they make teleport machines either.

WearyChild said:

Trust me I know how agoraphobia can effect the bonds we have with people. I haven't left the house in almost two years and it has shown me that people get annoyed with you once they realize your not going to snap out of it. Good luck finding an agoraphobic girlfriend. Although maybe that only seems hard to me cause I forget not all agoraphobics are completely housebound. Here is a question for people. Does dating improve or worsen conditions cause I'm 20 almost 21 never dated and dont know whether its worth it or not. My thought is why the hell would I want to tie someone to this house. If I even let then come over. Yup definitly no bf for me.

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yeah people always think u'll just snap out of it, or they dont believe u at all n think ur just full of excuses. but it is definatly worth trying to date, there's alot of nice girls out there that will love u for who u r trust me. and u know how sometimes u wish nothin other than that u didnt have agoraphobia, when ur with a girl u stop wishing for anything else.

so yeah im still dating... somehow, lol, and im going for my bike licence so i can hide my face on the road.

rustyrus303 said:

yeah people always think u'll just snap out of it, or they dont believe u at all n think ur just full of excuses. but it is definatly worth trying to date, there's alot of nice girls out there that will love u for who u r trust me. and u know how sometimes u wish nothin other than that u didnt have agoraphobia, when ur with a girl u stop wishing for anything else.

so yeah im still dating... somehow, lol, and im going for my bike licence so i can hide my face on the road.

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I guess dating could be worth it but it sounds like you still leave the house some. For me it would be impossible to meet a guy let alone convince him to go out with me. Dont necissarily need a bike. Just tinted windows lol.

She must exist.

oh... n sorry, i thought u were a guy

love isn't blind, it just only sees what matters..!

n how come when i write in forums i feel like im typing all intellectually, i dont like it! it lacks my awsome dumness... 'note to self.. type all intellectually'

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I tend to sound alot smarter in words then I sound to myself in my head. I can understand the violence thing now but that developed for me for no reason. I used to be pretty stupid walking alone at 2 in the morning. Drunk starts following me so I buy him a coffee. Had alot of instances that could have turned bad but never did but now Im pretty paranoid about it all. Even if I dont go out there I hear about it enough that I feel like its right there.

I DO BELIEVE IN FAERIES!.... decent human beings now thats a stretch.

rustyrus303 said:

i've only just started goin onto furums since i broke up with my girlfriend, i could just go n find another girl, but i want a girl who understands this problem. i do go out but its hard n sometimes i just cant do it.

i had a great relationship, we were both totally in luv but we were always fighting. i already have trouble goin out, she was beautiful but she was always jellous n insecure. whenever we went anywhere she thought i was lookin at every girl i saw, but i was only ever lookin at her. i always wished some day she'd realize, when im with someone im with someone nd i give myself to them completely. but its over now cos she coudnt handle being jellous nd i couldnt handle not being trusted.

she used to even get jealous of girls on tv, so i could never watch a movie with her or anythin like that, which to me is like the best kinda quality time u can spend together, just relaxed, cuddlin up on tha couch. she'd get upset nd sometimes we'd argue for days over somethin like that. see we both got issues, i never labeled her insecure i just tried to support her n show her i love her. u'd think the main issue in our relationship would be my agoraphobia.

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Where do you live? I want to meet with people with similar problems and people who will actually admit that they are not perfect anyways seriously where do you live maybe we can meet up.. I don't have a agoraphobia but...

rustyrus303 said:

i've only just started goin onto furums since i broke up with my girlfriend, i could just go n find another girl, but i want a girl who understands this problem. i do go out but its hard n sometimes i just cant do it.

i had a great relationship, we were both totally in luv but we were always fighting. i already have trouble goin out, she was beautiful but she was always jellous n insecure. whenever we went anywhere she thought i was lookin at every girl i saw, but i was only ever lookin at her. i always wished some day she'd realize, when im with someone im with someone nd i give myself to them completely. but its over now cos she coudnt handle being jellous nd i couldnt handle not being trusted.

she used to even get jealous of girls on tv, so i could never watch a movie with her or anythin like that, which to me is like the best kinda quality time u can spend together, just relaxed, cuddlin up on tha couch. she'd get upset nd sometimes we'd argue for days over somethin like that. see we both got issues, i never labeled her insecure i just tried to support her n show her i love her. u'd think the main issue in our relationship would be my agoraphobia.

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Where do you live? I want to meet with people with similar problems and people who will actually admit that they are not perfect anyways seriously where do you live maybe we can meet up.. I don't have a agoraphobia but...