JanBalallo
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Got back with your best friend after a fight? Here are some possible ways to bring back those good 'ol times.
In my recent thread, I discussed about how I ended up in a situation with my best friend.
But the thing is-- that doesn't exist anymore and those problems has been put to the past so if I were you, I'd try my best to stop thinking about those problems with doing the things you love doing the most.
But our main topic here is: "What can you do to bring back those good 'ol times with your best friend?"
Well if you LOVE your best friend so much and work so hard, here is one.
You can try to recreate one event that happened to you guys based on how you guys met (if you are also reading this and currently with someone, this can also work for it.)
Best friends:
You could come up with an excuse to do the "recreating of the event". For me, the first time I met my best friend was in gym class, we had this little activity called "Meet in the Middle". The basic concept of that game was that your teacher or the instructor of the game has to call out a task. This is a memory game, just to see how well you remember what you guys had done.
Going back to the activity, I was late for that class and my coach asked if I could be partners with the new kid (yes, he was new to school) and I was like.
"Sure," I said.
He led me to the new kid, so at first when I met him-- he was really shy, like a new kid in a school would be.
So he introduced himself, I had a hard time understanding him to which was just okay and I didn't really want to give him a hard time.
That was the first time we met before we actually became best friends.
So that's how I recreate the time when me and my best friend, became one.
Now if you don't really want to have to do all this just after a fight... you can always have another option and that is by being nice to each other after a few times that you had a fight, you can either be friendly or nice to each other or just do whatever you guys did back then.
So in this way, you can start by talking to this person more often as to what you did back then. Now for me, I didn't talk to my best friend during the fight and you actually don't need to talk because you guys are pissed at each other so why bother to talk to that person?
To what I did is that I just talked to this person and treated him nicely, and so he did too, he treated me nicely not like how he did before our fight.
Here on now, we saw two different way to bring back the good 'ol ways of being friends.
What do you think is the best option for you?
1) Working hard to bring back one good memory?
[OR]
2) Work easy to just be friends.
In my recommendation, I'd say "Option 1", "Working hard to bring back one good memory" is the best option. That shows how much you love and care about this person. Either way, both options are just okay but "Option 1" is highly recommended after a fight.
I hope this might've helped some of you guys, drop a comment below if I should start writing weekly articles abut friendships. Or not just my topics, but your guys' topics, you can do request your own topic to be featured by just dropping a comment below.
In my recent thread, I discussed about how I ended up in a situation with my best friend.
But the thing is-- that doesn't exist anymore and those problems has been put to the past so if I were you, I'd try my best to stop thinking about those problems with doing the things you love doing the most.
But our main topic here is: "What can you do to bring back those good 'ol times with your best friend?"
Well if you LOVE your best friend so much and work so hard, here is one.
You can try to recreate one event that happened to you guys based on how you guys met (if you are also reading this and currently with someone, this can also work for it.)
Best friends:
You could come up with an excuse to do the "recreating of the event". For me, the first time I met my best friend was in gym class, we had this little activity called "Meet in the Middle". The basic concept of that game was that your teacher or the instructor of the game has to call out a task. This is a memory game, just to see how well you remember what you guys had done.
Going back to the activity, I was late for that class and my coach asked if I could be partners with the new kid (yes, he was new to school) and I was like.
"Sure," I said.
He led me to the new kid, so at first when I met him-- he was really shy, like a new kid in a school would be.
So he introduced himself, I had a hard time understanding him to which was just okay and I didn't really want to give him a hard time.
That was the first time we met before we actually became best friends.
So that's how I recreate the time when me and my best friend, became one.
Now if you don't really want to have to do all this just after a fight... you can always have another option and that is by being nice to each other after a few times that you had a fight, you can either be friendly or nice to each other or just do whatever you guys did back then.
So in this way, you can start by talking to this person more often as to what you did back then. Now for me, I didn't talk to my best friend during the fight and you actually don't need to talk because you guys are pissed at each other so why bother to talk to that person?
To what I did is that I just talked to this person and treated him nicely, and so he did too, he treated me nicely not like how he did before our fight.
Here on now, we saw two different way to bring back the good 'ol ways of being friends.
What do you think is the best option for you?
1) Working hard to bring back one good memory?
[OR]
2) Work easy to just be friends.
In my recommendation, I'd say "Option 1", "Working hard to bring back one good memory" is the best option. That shows how much you love and care about this person. Either way, both options are just okay but "Option 1" is highly recommended after a fight.
I hope this might've helped some of you guys, drop a comment below if I should start writing weekly articles abut friendships. Or not just my topics, but your guys' topics, you can do request your own topic to be featured by just dropping a comment below.