IntheLabyrinth
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I just noticed a person on FB that I was friends with in High School, and he posted a pic of his furry chest (stomach and shoulders) with all the confidence of GQ's sexiest man of the year. I, however, would not post a pic like that to save my life. It's so sad that we cannot have the same confidence as those around us when we have objectively the same skills, looks, talents, intelligence, etc! Why can't changing one's self esteem be easy? No matter how many people tell me I am attractive or smart or whatever it is they compliment me on, I can not fully accept it. My internal critic always tells me that they are just being polite, that it's not really true. Does anyone have any tips on how to believe that you are a worthwhile person with much to contribute? If you say positive affirmations, please explain exactly how you used them cause they haven't worked for me.