hi i need friend i am lonely i have no brother no sister and no cousin and i am scared of my parent they keep getting angry for no reason and when i was in school everyone hate me they say get lost and then when i am in college i had 3 nice friend they help me alot and i have told them the secret why i have an anxiety problem because iam alone but then they betrayal me they tease me alot and everyday and insult me infront of girls everyday and then girls started to tease me and saying bad word about me and then 2 girls who live near by my house they lie to their parents that i teases them but i never tease them then they parents make angry faces to me and then girls begin to laugh and everyone in college make fun of me that my hand and leg shiver and then went i go to home dad begin to shout and get angry for no reason so why everyone hate me i am very innocent and i have soft heart and i never say bad things about anyone this is the reason why i have social anxiety i have been bullied for years in college and iam scared of girls when a girl is near i begin to shiver i cant talk to girls so plz help me i want to smile:crying:
help i need friends
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Ransfordrowe
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Feel free to stop by my page,if you want to chat.Welcome to the site.
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I know what you mean to some extent. idk why certain people are targeted for gossip like that. I haven't tried to make friends for like 5 years because of that kind of stuff.
the problem is, when you have no friends to stand up for you and speak the truth about you people can just say/fabricate WHATEVER they want about you....people with good friends/social circles are usually SHIELDED from that kind of gossip and slander.
the problem is, when you have no friends to stand up for you and speak the truth about you people can just say/fabricate WHATEVER they want about you....people with good friends/social circles are usually SHIELDED from that kind of gossip and slander.
Woah dude you said you go to college but your writing is literally horrible. I'm sorry but at least try to be legible. In regards to your situation, yeah that sucks. I'd say it sounds like your friends are dickheads and maybe they don't know it? I'm not really too sure because i'm not in your situation but i think it might be a good idea to talk to someone about your situation in real life. Obviously bullying isn't acceptable but i'm not sure if that is what you're going through. It sounds more like they are just teasing you and they don't understand how bad it bothers you. I totally get why this is such a shitty situation for you btw. You opened up to some people because you wanted to be more outgoing and it backfired on you and now is out in the open with people laughing about it. Really i just think it is hard for the majority of the population to understand SA and so they don't take it seriously. Anyways if everything i am guessing is correct then I would just suggest trying to tell your friends that what you told them was confidential and actually is a real struggle in your life that you have and that you don't think that it is funny when they tease you about it and would appreciate if they stopped. I really don't think your friends were trying to hurt you, they just don't understand. Anyways, i wish you the best of luck and hell, maybe if you are lucky you can try to get one of those girls? I know that is a far leap but you already got them giggling which is actually a really good thing. I know it isn't over what you want them to know you by but at the same time who cares? They probably think you are cute and they already know about you so you are basically already in man. Now you just got to get them drunk and then BAM you are getting laid.
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Requiescat
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His name would suggest Semite origin, or at least ancestry, so the writing is of little concern (it's perfectly understandable). It's the new gen Western Europeans and Americans who I often struggle to understand. So Rahim, don't worry about that thoughtless comment. You are welcome here and I'm sure you will feel at home. You can talk about anything freely and securely and we'll have your back.
Ok, yeah i feel bad about how i started off my comment now. Feel free to read the rest of my comment if you think it is thoughtless though. My intention wasn't to put anyone down and I think if you read the rest of my comment you will be able to notice this.
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Requiescat
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I know you weren't intentionally being rude, but felt it necessary to deal with what could have bern a very damaging remark. Nothing wrong with the rest of your post. Peace.
Totally understand. I'm glad you called me out on it.