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Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
It feels great knowing that my own family accuse me of being a hypochondriac for taking concerns about my own health serious. :kickingmyself:

They expect me to be all sympathy and whenever they go:
"Oh, I'm no feelin' well. Ma leg's sore"​

Yet I'm being daft for merely suggesting getting a nurse to look at what appears to an in-grown left big toe-nail. And you'll never f**kin' guess... :eek:h:

But, hey, naebuddy listens to me. Naw, ah just keep ma mouth shut, because everybody tends to take umbrage at me speaking ma mind. When I'm right, they accuse me of lying, when I'm wrong they never tell me why? Apparently, you've got tae be a f**kin' psychic and "...just know" Because men are f**kin' adept mind-readers.
 

defiance

Well-known member
I have to start applying for some work and just the thought of it sent me to anxietyville where fear was also waiting for me. Something so simple shouldn't have to weigh so heavily on a person.:kickingmyself:
 

defiance

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Old man opened his mouth again and caused trouble once more over nothing. He is cancer to this family as is my sibling because he is just like the old man. There are days where I wish I can take my mother away from all of this. Just pack our things and run away from these @ssholes. She deserves so much better.
 

AtTheGates

Banned
still have a bit of an adrenaline rush. I broke up my first REALLY rough fight today between two rival gang members in the dorm I was assigned to. one of them was a Crip and the other was a blood. by the time I made my way over to them one of them had the other in a head lock and looked like he was trying to choke him out ...so I managed to get MY arm under HIS arm (the one time having thin wrists actually pays off) and was able to take the pressure off of the head lock a bit..by that time back-up arrived and we pried them apart ...they were basically stuck together like super glue ...that guy REALLY wanted to choke him out.



then I had to write a statement and had to re-write it 3 times to appease the sergeant. -_-




there was like 6 different fights throughout the prison today. someone said the crips and bloods are having a "war"....but i seriously hope not because I'm worn out...I dont want to have to deal with this sh!t again tomorrow .






I deserve beer.
 
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Yet I'm being daft for merely suggesting getting a nurse to look at what appears to an in-grown left big toe-nail

If it's red & swollen, or sore, i'd definately get it checked out. Else you can get a toe infection, which i've had for about 2 years. It takes a long time for the toe to fully recover. Worst case it can lead to amputation.
 

PugofCrydee

You want to know how I got these scars?
It feels great knowing that my own family accuse me of being a hypochondriac for taking concerns about my own health serious. :kickingmyself:

They expect me to be all sympathy and whenever they go:
"Oh, I'm no feelin' well. Ma leg's sore"​

Yet I'm being daft for merely suggesting getting a nurse to look at what appears to an in-grown left big toe-nail. And you'll never f**kin' guess... :eek:h:

But, hey, naebuddy listens to me. Naw, ah just keep ma mouth shut, because everybody tends to take umbrage at me speaking ma mind. When I'm right, they accuse me of lying, when I'm wrong they never tell me why? Apparently, you've got tae be a f**kin' psychic and "...just know" Because men are f**kin' adept mind-readers.


Ah what mate?.. sorry, I wasn't listening.. :bigsmile:
 

Kiwong

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I'm turning to drink. At a workshop at work. I've retreated to a cabin by myself and had some beers to soften the blow of being around people.
 
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Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
No it didn't. He went back to being the person that I know and hate. Man I can't even begin to put into words how bad I want to kill myself. I'm not even joking when I say this that if I was alone right now...I'd attempt to hang myself. I am so over this MAN.... . DEAR GOD WHY DO I HAVE TO SUFFER SO MUCH.......

I ask and wonder the same thing myself.

Sorry you have to deal with this constant crap.

Och! Don't feel sorry for me, man. I've been put up with my family underestimating and treat me like shit for the last 14 years, I'm well use to it by now.

In my case, although I got chewed out, I deserve it. I mean look at me. I am 31 and can't do anything to support myself or my family. I can't blame my mom for getting mad at me for this. The old man on the other hand is ok some of the times but when he loses his mind I mean it's just constant verbal fighting. It breaks my morale a lot but he's too stupid to understand what he is doing is harmful. Plus a sibling that is just like him but at times worse.

My mum tends to be like this with me. She loses her mind over me doing what I want, gets intae arguments with me. And she doesnae get that she’s in the wrong for acting the ways she does.

I may be 31 but mentally, where it counts, I am maybe 10. I have no knowledge of how the world works and therefore I am destined to fail. I just want my pain to stop. I don't know about you but it scares me to think I might live too long and that everyday will be like this. I...I just don't know what to do anymore. This amount of suffering is just too much.

Don’t know if I’m the same boat here. I mean, I can relate to being somewhat naïve, not so worldly wise; and everything I do seemingly being doomed to fail from the off. But no-one really gave me any guidance in my life. My family tend to be quite controlling in telling me what to do and think all the time. My dad wus'nae really around and when he was he wanted me to be exactly like him. And, in a way, I’ve become just like me.

That said, I’d rather be able to support myself without being overly reliant upon my family. Since my family tend to be manipulative, in that, they’ll guilt me for not asking for their help. Then they get all smug as f**k when I do ask for their help. As if me asking them to help me gives them some kinda ego boost. At my expense, of course. Y'know, being disabled it goes with saying that I'm needy and co-dependent. NOT!

Old man opened his mouth again and caused trouble once more over nothing. He is cancer to this family as is my sibling because he is just like the old man. There are days where I wish I can take my mother away from all of this. Just pack our things and run away from these @ssholes. She deserves so much better.

Definitely sounds like yer putting up with more than ye can cope with or should even endure. Though, yer dad reminds me a lot of the youngest of my 2 older siblings. Always causing arguments over trivial, mundane shite. And making a big deal outta nothing. Getting into an argument over semantics. :eek:h:

So, I can very much empathise with having to deal with that family member who opens their big mouth and starts a fight. It's no pleasant, I know.
 

defiance

Well-known member
Normally I post how miserable I am but right now I am feeling grateful. Grateful that I have such an amazing Mother who has always been there for me. She only wants whats best for me and that is why she pushes and encourages me to get out there and make something of myself. Of course having the issues that I do, it makes it difficult and then it makes her feel like she might be failing as a parent WHICH COULDN'T BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH. This woman is my rock and if I didn't have her in my life then I wouldn't be here anymore. So to make a long story short, I am feeling grateful to have such an amazing person in my life. Hopefully one day soon I can repay her for everything that she has done for me.
 

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Normally I post how miserable I am but right now I am feeling grateful. Grateful that I have such an amazing Mother who has always been there for me. She only wants whats best for me and that is why she pushes and encourages me to get out there and make something of myself. Of course having the issues that I do, it makes it difficult and then it makes her feel like she might be failing as a parent WHICH COULDN'T BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH. This woman is my rock and if I didn't have her in my life then I wouldn't be here anymore. So to make a long story short, I am feeling grateful to have such an amazing person in my life. Hopefully one day soon I can repay her for everything that she has done for me.

Nice change from yer usual posts, defiance. :thumbup:
 

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
It's my birthday today.
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29 years old, yet I still feel like a teenager, mentally. And, somewhat physically, when I'm clean-shaven :sad:

At least, I've got an excuse to get drunk today.
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