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Elite User
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Shellharbour, Australia
Posts: 10,801
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Re: How are you feeling?
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Originally Posted by superfluouslyme
Yeah, I'm going through that right now. It's no fun.
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I was unemployed for 11 months years ago and that sucked bad. I'm sorry you're going through this now but with any luck you can find some work.
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: United States
Posts: 223
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Re: How are you feeling?
I am tired and ready for bed.
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Newbie User
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Australia
Posts: 62
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Re: How are you feeling?
Anxious. Attacked.
From this e-mail "Steph, I didn’t get your email until I got home last night – I go to all my tutes so it hadn’t occurred to me that anyone wouldn’t bother to turn up, especially when we’re doing a group project. "
It's so bitchy. I had a huge assignment worth 50% I needed to do... she doesnt study full-time and shes a mature aged student so she spend heapss on the assignment while im struggling with mutiple assignments.. its just so bitchy and im upset and feel attacked and i just dont want to eat for the rest of the day..
i guess im super sensitive.. i hate stuff like this
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04-27-2012
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Expert User
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 730
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Re: How are you feeling?
"You've got 1 friend request. Online. 2.8 miles from you."
Yeah right. We use kilometres around here.
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Newbie User
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Carlsbad, CA
Posts: 14
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Re: How are you feeling?
I feel like a complete failure socially.
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Advanced User
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Belgium
Posts: 479
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Re: How are you feeling?
Terrible migraine, I hardly had any sleep and I'm supposed to shut my feelings off but I can't for some reason...
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04-27-2012
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Singing Bird
Elite User
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The Netherlands
Posts: 2,608
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Re: How are you feeling?
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Originally Posted by jtb1980
I feel like a complete failure socially.
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what happened? *hugs*
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when you stay away from certain things, your brain confirms that its something to fear, so face your fears, so your subconcious mind gets used to it 
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04-27-2012
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Expert User
Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 695
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Re: How are you feeling?
Right now I am feeling a bit relieved. I have one week left of regular classes and then a week of finals. But I only have two classes and I can take my test for my Spanish class early so I don't have to go to class on the last week. So technically, I only have two Spanish classes left. Only two. My other class is only once a week and so that means I only have two classes left of that one as well. Depending on what I can work out with my teacher, I may be able to get everything done for that one early too. If not I still will only have one class on the week of the 7th (finals week). The end if near, it really is. I didn't think I would make it. I had so much despair, so much... dread. I wanted to give up so many times. I felt so depressed and so hopeless. I wanted to die. Now, classes are finally ending. Soon it will all be over and I won't have to worry about it anymore. It feels great.
The 7th is when my lease ends. It could be that day or a few days after that when I get to go up to Colorado and see my dog again. I miss him lots. I can't believe it is almost here. It is just so weird, the feeling of so much stress and anxiety and depression and then to actually see a light at the end of the tunnel. I know things are going to be really tough when I get back up to Colorado. The thought of leaving Arizona is making me really sad. I do have lots of conflicting thoughts about the situation and the future is unclear, so that is scary. But, the light. I see it.
I also have a lot of other conflicting emotions. Feelings of wanting to reach out but being scared to as well. I want to be close to people and I want friends, but when it comes to making an effort or taking chances, I just seem to stop myself.
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Elite User
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Shellharbour, Australia
Posts: 10,801
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Re: How are you feeling?
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Originally Posted by outsideroftheoutsiders
Anxious. Attacked.
From this e-mail "Steph, I didn’t get your email until I got home last night – I go to all my tutes so it hadn’t occurred to me that anyone wouldn’t bother to turn up, especially when we’re doing a group project. "
It's so bitchy. I had a huge assignment worth 50% I needed to do... she doesnt study full-time and shes a mature aged student so she spend heapss on the assignment while im struggling with mutiple assignments.. its just so bitchy and im upset and feel attacked and i just dont want to eat for the rest of the day..
i guess im super sensitive.. i hate stuff like this
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Group projects would be like that. You're constantly relying on others to pull their weight and then get stressed when they don't. Sorry this is happening. Hopefully you can get through it.
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Singing Bird
Elite User
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The Netherlands
Posts: 2,608
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Re: How are you feeling?
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Originally Posted by MsBuzzkillington
Right now I am feeling a bit relieved. I have one week left of regular classes and then a week of finals. But I only have two classes and I can take my test for my Spanish class early so I don't have to go to class on the last week. So technically, I only have two Spanish classes left. Only two. My other class is only once a week and so that means I only have two classes left of that one as well. Depending on what I can work out with my teacher, I may be able to get everything done for that one early too. If not I still will only have one class on the week of the 7th (finals week). The end if near, it really is. I didn't think I would make it. I had so much despair, so much... dread. I wanted to give up so many times. I felt so depressed and so hopeless. I wanted to die. Now, classes are finally ending. Soon it will all be over and I won't have to worry about it anymore. It feels great.
The 7th is when my lease ends. It could be that day or a few days after that when I get to go up to Colorado and see my dog again. I miss him lots. I can't believe it is almost here. It is just so weird, the feeling of so much stress and anxiety and depression and then to actually see a light at the end of the tunnel. I know things are going to be really tough when I get back up to Colorado. The thought of leaving Arizona is making me really sad. I do have lots of conflicting thoughts about the situation and the future is unclear, so that is scary. But, the light. I see it.
I also have a lot of other conflicting emotions. Feelings of wanting to reach out but being scared to as well. I want to be close to people and I want friends, but when it comes to making an effort or taking chances, I just seem to stop myself.
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Good luck on studying, You can do it!!!
The conflicting emotions, maybe you should write them all down in a notepad, what are the main reasons for you to feel so overly stressed, why are you thinking about a bunch of conflicts? I hope you will feel more at ease when you know it is more clarified in a notepad, and to reach out, you indeed have to put effort to it, but talking can be hard... agreed.. but if you talk, ppl might understand you better and will take more care of your feelings and you can finally feel less pressured and relieved.. by saying it. Be proud 
Have fun iwth yout pet, that's so sweet
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when you stay away from certain things, your brain confirms that its something to fear, so face your fears, so your subconcious mind gets used to it
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