how did you get in a relationship?

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bsammy

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im in a mini relationship you could call it...ive been in several mini relationships as of late...i approached her every time..
 
PugofCrydee

PugofCrydee

You want to know how I got these scars?
I've recently come out of a long term relationship. But I was shy back then (still am) about approaching someone I find attractive. So my ex more or less initiated things.

These days, I'm a little more confident about initiating that contact, but I have the feeling I'm not good enough for anyone so that's a major roadblock. Kinda gets in the way.. :)
 
outofthisworld

outofthisworld

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for a very long time...last week i finally got the guts to ask a girl out.. my co workers helped by them realizing i liked the girl but would never go talk to her.. then they called her and asked her number.. and made me call her.. I didn't call, i hate talking on the phone.. so i texted her... we've been talking since Sunday, and i asked her out, we are meeting on Saturday... i'm already over thinking the whole scenario.. i cant help it, even though i know all will happen totally in another way. but that's what i always do...

many many times in the past I missed out so many girls that i really liked. and i really regret it, so a long time ago i said to my self that i would stronger than ever and would't not do something... i would go for it...it doesn't mean im having second thoughts,, i was just having about 10 mins ago. but this time will happen... im going for the kind that its really confident, but under neath really isn't
 
fate12321

fate12321

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A friend of mine gave me some "dating" advice. For me, it's usually been the girls that approaches me, but I tend to screw things up. I think those days are over, since I'm no longer in high school. Anyways, my friend told me that it should be the guys that approach the girls. To do this, you obviously have to have a huge about of confidence in yourself to even say, "Hi". You also have to be willing to put yourself through possible embarrassing situations. You have to be wiling to accept rejection, and make piece with it. My friend also told me other things that I kinda don't consider advice, but what I wrote down is the only thing that I found useful.

I don't really think it matters as to who approaches who. I think societal norms says that it's always the males that approach the females. There's nothing wrong if it's the other way around, girl approaches guys.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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I approached her and I gave her my number at her place of work. That was one of the most unnerving things I've ever done, haha.
 
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jc972

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I insulted the school she went to and she gave me her phone number. First date we almost got in a car wreck and she grabbed my hand as i slammed on the brakes. ... game over baby ;)
 
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firebolt123

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Yeah I know what you mean I actually bought a dating program to kinda help me out with this….but it seems like the guy didn’t really “understand” SA as a condition. I wanna get better so I can actually talk to girls but I feel like all these dating programs are for people who are normal without SA while the rest of us are stuck in the dust. Is it just me who kinda feels like this?

BTW before anyone says anything I know it sounds really weird that I bought a dating program but I actually wanted help in this and get it over quick.
 
drganon

drganon

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It was pretty easy, all I really had to do was obtain the amulet of mara and get her a mammoth tu...oh you mean "real" relationships, don't you? In that case, I've never been in one and probably never will.
 
williamreinsch

williamreinsch

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I was approached both relationships i've been in (lucky because otherwise I would of never been in one). I could never buck up the nerve to talk to the girls I actually liked..
 
dannyboy65

dannyboy65

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drganon said:
It was pretty easy, all I really had to do was obtain the amulet of mara and get her a mammoth tu...oh you mean "real" relationships, don't you? In that case, I've never been in one and probably never will.
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Yea I had to get an amulet of mara and assassinate someone but I guess we are both on the wrong page here....
 
R3K

R3K

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I got into the handful of flash-toxic relationships with drug addict/alcoholic girls by listening to their venom-laced words and siren songs. now I have thousands in credit card debt and a load of anxiety inducing bad memories:question:
 
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sphynx

Active member
I've been in two relationships. The first time she approached me, the other time I contacted her (a different "her" of course) by Facebook (we used to work together, so she knew who I was).
 
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