How do I take the relationship to the next level?

dannyboy65

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If you read my past posts you will learn I've been seeing a girl who also has autism. She's sweet, caring, and so positive. I enjoy being around her and see her a lot. I see her tomorrow and we are having a drawing date. She likes to draw so we are going to find a nice place where we can be alone and draw and talk. For both of us physical stuff is big as I have a high sensory and she never had people really touch her. We both hug a lot now and we feel comfortable.

I'd really like to kiss her but not scare her away I told her I wanted to kiss her but wasn't because I didn't want to rush her and she said she'd like to but wants it to be right so I'm being very patient and I am happy building up to this.

I'm wondering when I should ask her out or if tomorrow I should make a move or wait. Cause I'm good with anything. In a way though I know she's ready it's all just very new stuff.
 
You could offer her a flower bouquet to show her how much you care about her, she'd surely be happy about it.
You could kiss her on a particular event or holiday, there is no better time.
Good luck dannyboy65.
 

PugofCrydee

You want to know how I got these scars?
I think it all depends on the people involved, the timing, the moment etc.

I think it's great that you're being patient. A commendable quality. I wouldn't try to make it happen, just let her feel more and more at ease with you. It will happen when it's meant to happen.

Fantastic that you're going on a drawing date! I think it shows that you're a caring guy.

I hope it all goes well for you both :)
 

dannyboy65

Well-known member
Well yesterday we kissed and now we are in a relationship :) I didn't rush her or force it. I told her that I would guide her through it and I did :)
 
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