WishingICould
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I work with an older woman who can sometimes be unbearable. She has a lot of drama when it comes to her personal/family life. I am a pretty good listener but she is just too much. She has 4 daughters, one is an alcoholic and the other 3 have other issues as well that i won't bore you with. All she talks about are her problems, whether it's her daughters or her husband, who she's constantly moaning about.
One minute her and her husband are apparently not talking and she "hates" him then the next day things are fine and she's saying he's booked them a holiday. I understand that she has problems, so do i but i don't go around telling everyone at work my personal problems. I'm 25 years old, i don't come to work to listen to a middle aged woman telling me every tiny detail of her, frankly tragic, family problems.
I suffer from depression but i don't go around telling people because i don't think it's anybody's business. She just doesn't seem to care who knows her personal business, it's like she's almost proud of it and likes the attention. I'm really getting sick of having to listen to her problems, a lot of which it sounds like she's brought on herself.
Is there any nice way i can tell her to at least tone down the talking? And yes, i HAVE to work with her. I'm stuck with this woman 8 hours a day.
One minute her and her husband are apparently not talking and she "hates" him then the next day things are fine and she's saying he's booked them a holiday. I understand that she has problems, so do i but i don't go around telling everyone at work my personal problems. I'm 25 years old, i don't come to work to listen to a middle aged woman telling me every tiny detail of her, frankly tragic, family problems.
I suffer from depression but i don't go around telling people because i don't think it's anybody's business. She just doesn't seem to care who knows her personal business, it's like she's almost proud of it and likes the attention. I'm really getting sick of having to listen to her problems, a lot of which it sounds like she's brought on herself.
Is there any nice way i can tell her to at least tone down the talking? And yes, i HAVE to work with her. I'm stuck with this woman 8 hours a day.