How many years have you lost?

Dead_on_Arrival

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I lost almost my entire childhood from age 5 right through my teens. My adult life has been patchwork of episodes right up until now. I never got any help until at the tender age of 34 my wife showed me the door to another way of dealing with my issues.
 

upndwn

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I've lost the majority of my teen and adult years. I'm 33 and still haven't got my life together.
 

Section_31

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it still holds me back, at least on a personal social front.

at work, ironically, i can actually function quite well, but the person my co-workers think they know is only a front. If anyone sees a glimpse of the real me i freeze and panic. Dont ask me why, i dont know, it just happens.

So in a way, personally, im still being held back.

Work front, im prospering.

Its all about perspective.
 

MrJones

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Somehow I managed to keep studying, to think of it as just routine, something I must do want it or not, but in everything else I've been always dead, especially in the social sense.

Since always these studies have been helping, I guess, to feel I'm not totally worthless and just a garbage bag, but let me need money, find a job... and we'll see what happens. When real life starts I don't think I would have anything close to a life...
 

WeirdyMcGee

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I wasted 8 years on a relationship when I'd have been better off alone.
Other than that--- being agoraphobic doesn't mean I've wasted my time... probably.
Or maybe it has~?
I'd prefer to think I haven't wasted any time, but instead; made mistakes and hopefully I can learn from them eventually.
Can't change the past~ so I'll try not to whine about it too much.
 

Blabla..

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I don't see it that way at all , it depends what you value in life , but my anxiety made me a better person , it made me seek for answers , it made me see alot of things i just couldn't see before . I'd rather be anxious than be ignorant as i used to be
 

LadyWench

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Too many. I quit school when I was about fourteen years old, and haven't done anything productive since then. Well, I held a job for a year when I was 16, but was laid off. So, since THEN, I've been nothing but a reclusive parasite. I feel like my life is totally limited and basically worthless. Yay!
 
One day closer to death

I'm not sure what counts as losing a year? I mean I was still alive and all, I just haven't done much with my time, ever. With that then I'd say my whole life basically, and who even knows how much more in the future. The future is bleak, I don't see myself doing anything productive any time ever.
 

Kiwong

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I lost about twenty years of running due to knee pain, and probably 5 years due to illness. The last few years have been some of my best, and I have shared these with anxiety. I'm not losing any years at the moment.
 

NP88

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Most of my teen years. By luck or will, not really sure, I tend to get control of my problems for a time only to sink back in. A few good years here, a few bad ones there. Currently it's been a mix this year.
 
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