I can't stand it anymore

lifesnotfair

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Somedays i just can't stand living anymore.. like i have basicaly no more tolerance i feel like nothing is going to change, because i have no motivation to do so. I am so fed up with myself, because i can't do anything to help myself..I feel trapped within myself. Don't want to move, don't want to feel anything. I just want to die...
 

tupac

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just do whatever you have to get the anger and frustration out. physical activity usally helps me. its a phase it passes but with me it comes and goes like once a week where i get so fed up i cant take it. try to take the fact that your life is fucked up and use it as fuel to do something positive.
 

Pearl

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Every comment you wrote l can relate to, and l'm sure alot of others here can too. You know what though - they're all negative thoughts. You can't give in to the crap way you're conditioned to think.

You have to be around positive people, build your self esteem, do enjoyable activities, focus on your strengths and what is right in your life, get your mind out of wallowing (if that's what you do, that's what l do alot of the time). Get a good therapist to help you with CBT, that can help alot.

I've had a hard year too, been thinking l want to end it, but l'd never do it, because l want to improve so much. I'd do anything to improve right now.

Good luck with staying positive :)
 

IcanDoIt

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lifesnotfair,

i guess your surrounding/environment is a very negative one..?

sorry if i am wrong.. :)
 

Fighter86

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I can so relate to how you guys feel. I juz feel that I am not good enough for anyone. I mean people always treat me so badly, the way they look at me, the way they ignore me etc. I hate all this. Now I am going to ask for a deferment from school & my parents have to be informed(they are juz gonna kill me- they don really believe in SA & think all this is like some kind of lie to not go school or something). I juz want to go to a far far away place & forget everything...but I have nowhere to run, nowhere to hide... :cry:
 

arlequin

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I feel like you many times. Sometimes all is so dark and I see no sense in anything and I wish the world would stop and get out of it to go a better planet. But fortunately other times there are things that give me the strengh to carry on. Some weeks ago I got a promotion and I felt very happy, not for getting more money but because I felt I was doing something well and somebody apreciated it. Or simply for giving a CD to somebody and feel this person was really thankful; I was making someone happy just for this simple thing. You have to be strong and make the effort to change your world. Try to change things you don't like. You have to take the first step wich is the hardest one.
 

marc72

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its so tough.

hmm i feel for you man. I wish you are able to meet a person from this site. "offline" and talk and relate things to each other. During the moment of dispair you probably forget about the people on this forum that care about you or each other. Please take that for consideration.? Do you have any hobbies? music collection?/ video game so when you come home you can escape a bit. What about joining a comic book club..?? its hard to be give you sound advice, but we FEEL your pain.

It takes that ONE Special person that can change your life around. I remember someone said that from previous posts (forgot the person)
it is still on my mind. That person is right. It takes that ONE person to fall in love or to have as a dear friend that will open you up or spend cool times with or eat a burger with or help you forget your problem with, it TAKES that one person that perhaps may have a Better job opportunity for you or introduces you to a new things in life like SKiing or going to a movie with...you understand?? I am sure many of person wants that special person ..i guess.
Som
 

GettingThere

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lifesnotfair said:
my work is negative, my personal life is negative.. everything is negative, there is nothing positive

Its a tad cliched but true, you really have no idea how good your life is. Think about those who wonder about where their next meal will come from. Think about those who wonder whether some prick will explode a bomb strapped to their chest in the bus that you are riding on. Think about those who have terminal diseases. Man, the list goes on and on and on.

Bottom line is that you have a much better life that you know.
 
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